It's been a long time...Trying to get back to her
By spyboysatya
@spyboysatya (148)
India
April 30, 2013 4:40am CST
(Sober)
It's been 5 years, since 2007, when we first met in our Graduation, and become shadows to each other, like carrot and peas, then some bad things, some mistakes, some sorry and some guilt. We were best friends and an example for others, but finally after one and a half years of friendship, we decided to get separated to never see each other again.
(excited)
After all these years, I was always ignoring her need in my life but am still far far away from her shadow. And now am eager to meet her, can't resist myself anymore, as I realized that what does a relationship means? and now I don't need anything from a relationship, it's just her companionship, her friendship that makes me happy.
(need help)
Now, here I need some expert advice, cause still there's one thing bothering me what if see denies to see me??? This feeling of denial always made me to step backward...and believe me this time also I'm backing up again, cause I don't have any prominent reason to met her, it's just I miss her much more than i breath, eat or sleep...
(Apathy)
It's hard for anyone to live like this way.
7 responses
@LegalAlien (641)
• Serbia
30 Apr 13
I feel you brother, i really do.
You gotta man up now.
What choices do you have?
1. To call, email, facebook etc. her.
2. To let it go and not meet her.
You seem to really have a wish to see her again. And so i advise you to do that.
It's better to do something and regret it than not to do it and always woder What If?
Do it. Get it out of your system and who knows... maybe she'll take you back with open arms.
Just make sure she is not married. With kids.
Anything less than that is fair game. Relationship, engaged, all fair game. All is fair in love and war!
Last thing. Do what your heart tells you to do. eh...
Good Luck 
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@spyboysatya (148)
• India
30 Apr 13
THanks bro, thanks a lot...
Now I can fully understand that why's everything fair in Love and War, cause you will not have a life after loosing that...
and better said: it's better to regret than wonder what if?
FAcebook, email call: I'm blocked everywhere, even she left my good friends also, so no real contact.
Not married, and I'm really eagar to get out of this condition, and I can pay anything for that, though I don't have much to give...
@CuteMandy (162)
• China
30 Apr 13
If I were you, I will go to her directly and tell her that I miss you so much and I need your company.
@spyboysatya (148)
• India
30 Apr 13
Yes, if you were me!!!
But, sadly, I can not do this, cause if I'll do anything like this, It will hurt her feeling, making me loose her, again.
And if you can see, I don't want to hurt her anymore, as I got a info that when we get separated she cried a lot, and now I'm nothing for her. She has a different life from me, as after that I left the college, if u can see, there was nothing left for me there.
OK, Just tell me that what will you do when an old friend becomes your foe, and after many years that friend will return to you to apolozise? Would you go for an acceptance or rejection???
@CuteMandy (162)
• China
30 Apr 13
As my real character, if an old friend comes to me again, I will reject because the friendship is not pure now. However, I will tell him that I have forgiven him. Time passed, we can forgive everybody. So you should go to her first and apolozise sincerely, what will happen depends on her, not you. If you don't take any action, you never know what happen.
@crazyranjeev (684)
• India
30 Apr 13
if you really feel that its difficult to live without then don't waste your time and call her or message her, if you think about rejection then it become too late or may be you never again meat her.
if you ask her then there is possibility that she accept your proposal and both live happily.
@Arieles (2473)
• United States
30 Apr 13
If you really miss her as you say you do, then you must ask her to allow you back into her life. If she says "no" then you're not any better off than what you are at this very moment. If she is as special as you say she is, she will have a strong character and will be willing to forgive any past transgressions and move forward with your new found friendship. Call her, let her know how you feel. If you can't call her, GO TO HER, TALK to her. All communication takes place with some kind of action. Good luck.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
30 Apr 13
Go to her, and make sure you are 100% honest with her. Good luck to you.
@sonusinghal34 (30)
• India
30 Apr 13
i used to love one girls she was living in ratlam and i used to lived in delhi
i got my frist love that time frist time we talk to each other by cell phone
then we talk to each other 2 year then one day we meet and love to each other .realy i love her now days also
iam waiting for her??but i am unable to understand why did she left me?
realy god promise i love more her ?but she did not give me single one chance for clear explain her problem?????i am missing you my love???????
@grvdubey11 (1879)
• India
30 Apr 13
Look mate ,you are not in contact with her right now anyways and also you have this feeling that she would refuse to meet you.So why not make an attempt to make friendship with her,if you are able to convince her to be friends again then it would be great ,but in case you fail then it would not make much of a difference because you are already not in contact with her.This way at-least you will have the satisfaction that you tried.Just my opinion though, i am trying to help.Best wishes.
