will you continue to work?
By CuteMandy
@CuteMandy (162)
China
May 20, 2013 9:23am CST
I start my new job today. but the new employees said that the new manager is a very hatred lady, the environment is very bad.
Lose heart. But as I would like to develop in that kind of direction, so I would stay there for 3 months.
Guys, if you, how to overcome this mood? I'm depressed now and lost myself.
3 responses
@fruitcakeliz (2639)
• United States
20 May 13
best of luck in your new job. Keep in mind also that just because you heard RUMORS that the boss is not nice, doesn't mean it is true. Often times those kinds of stories are started by people who had a run in with the employer over not doing their jobs well, slacking off etc. and instead of taking the blame themselves and admitting that they were maybe not working as hard as they should, they place the blame on the boss and call them rude, mean and hard to work for. Just go in with your best positive attitude and do you required job to the best of your abilities, you just might find you enjoy working there!
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@fruitcakeliz (2639)
• United States
23 May 13
@CuteMandy ....then do as you would like....keep things simple. show up, do your job, be pleasant with the other employees but not overly friendly....i find that getting involved with the "drama" of the work place is what causes the most amounts of stress and worry.
@CuteMandy (162)
• China
24 May 13
@fruitcakeliz I have quit my new job. Because the contract is totally different from what we negotiated. If you have time, or need anything special from China, maybe you can cooperate with me.
But if there is no interest, then forget it.
would like to be your friend.
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@CuteMandy (162)
• China
22 May 13
Thank you! After two days' work, sometimes I would like to go away , but sometimes I persuade myself to keep until succeed there. Rumors continues. Maybe my new coleagues don't like me. They don't fill me in. I don't know why, because I would like to keep everything simple.
@honor00 (185)
•
20 May 13
You don't say what the company does, or what you do, BUT. It's always hard starting a new job. Unfamiliar place, people and duties for a few weeks. Why is your manager unpopular? Is she insisting on doing things properly? Concentrate on making friends, ok not bosom ones, but friends, especially of the manager, whom I know from personal experience will be feeling attacked and lonely. Smile, search for the positives, you are at least getting closer to your goal.
@CuteMandy (162)
• China
22 May 13
Thank you! Just lose heart sometimes, but cheer up myself sometimes currently. Go on!
@CuteMandy (162)
• China
22 May 13
Thank you! Just lose heart sometimes, but cheer up myself sometimes currently. Go on!
@LaDeBoheme (2004)
• United States
21 May 13
fruitcakeliz nailed it. Don't let the hearsay and rumors get you down. If this is the direction you want to go in, go for it. If you do your job, than I seriously doubt you will have any problems with the new 'mean' boss. Something tells me only the slackers hate her... and nobody likes a slacker.
@CuteMandy (162)
• China
22 May 13
Thank you! I would like to keep for a while and check what will go on! If there is anything new. I will share.