Ouch.. Someone help me, I need advice..:(

first things first....leave the physical looks out of it.....what he looks like...what his new girlfriend looks like (or even what you/how you FEEL you look like)....That is not the issue here, it never is, though people try to think it is. secondly..relationships ending sucks. when they end unexpectedly, they suck even MORE...i totally get that, and don't let ANYONE try to prevent you from grieving this relationship by telling you it wasn't real just because you never met. In today's society more and more people meet and keep in touch with people from all over the world they have never met....that doesn't make the friendship/relationship any less real. In fact sometimes they can actually seem MORE real as in many of these "online" relationships (whether just friendly or romantic) can be even more real and close, due to the fact that a little bit of distance can cause people to open up more about their feelings and beliefs than when face to face with someone. thirdly.....chin up...i know it sounds cliche but there are other fish in the sea....if he didn't respect you enough to even call what you had a relationship....then just disappeared...(and didn't even un-friend you from facebook ....talk about a "cyber" slap-in-the-face) he sounds like kind of a jerk and you certainly deserve better