love life?

Personally, I wouldn't date a guy who has a kid either unless if I am really and truly in love with him. It's not like it is a bad thing that a guy has a kid of his own. My reasons for not dating him would be that I want the guy to focus on his kid rather than me. If a guy is responsible, he would place the kid's needs above his own. Another personal reason of mine is that I am not ready to take care of kids. It's a big responsibility after all.

ok.....here goes... i am 33....(so i ft that age range) next.......when you speak of your friends being only 18 years old or so and having slept with more girls than they can count on their fingers.....that is ridiculous, and not something you should feel bad for not having accomplished. next....i know (not from personal experience, but experience of close friends of mine) that having a child, being single, and at a some what "young" age can be a turn off to the "dating crowd" but believe me when i say, you will find the right match eventually. next: i appreciate and love how much you love and adore your child, that is a huge plus and will gain you plus points when you find the right crown of gals to hand out with and lastly..i regret to inform you that mylot is no longer a paying site....so your comment about looking to make a couple extra bucks here and their by ;posting here isn't gonna get you anywhere.....but my thoughts are still with you and i wish you luck in meeting the right person. a lot of people diss dating sites, and i am not wanting to sound like i am plugging a site, but is where i meant my AMAZING boyfriend of 5 years now....it is free...low pressure, create a profile and only talk to who you want.. as i said....not trying to sound like a commercial.....and best of luck...