Do married mothers love their husbands more or kids more

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When I was very little, I asked my grandmother who she loved the most, thinking that the answer would be me. Without hesitating, she told me that she loved grandpa the most. I was surprised and kept asking her if she loved him more than my mother, more than my aunt, more than me. Always the answer was yes. She was incredibly gentle throughout my line of questioning and explained to me that he was the love of her life. I was too young then to understand the difference between romantic love and familial love, but I always remembered this. I also remember my grandparents sitting next to each other on the couch, holding hands and singing tunes together absentmindedly well into their 80s and still do it . But i am still puzzled and overwhelmed by her answer.I always thought she would answer "you " but it was bit of surprising when she said "your grandpa ".I am not jealous though .Its lovely to see them holding hands still ( they are married for like 70 years now ) Do you think it depends on individual women ?? I am just curious to know.