Pls help me, I need advices, feel lost totally!

China
July 11, 2013 9:57pm CST
I don't know how to find a very suitable job, or maybe I just avoid looking for a job! I am not sure that. I don't work for anycompany for 4 months. During this period, I have some opportunities, but I can't feel this is the job I want, so I refused. I am still looking for. But actually, I know my best wish is to be a soho. I have too many thoughts and ideas, and would like to travel all the time. While I worked for anybody, there is no chance to go around anywhere. Just feel terrible. In fact, my money can't keep too long. I still work on my little online store and just send resumes all day, but no answer. Everybody says that there is a recession on the workplace. Is it right? I am not sure. Pls tell me whether I should keep working on by myself, or work full time to look for a job first of all?
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17 responses
• Prague, Czech Republic
12 Jul 13
I suggest you to attend some kind of training that will help you improve your personal skills and later find a job!
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• China
12 Jul 13
You have a good idea! I need to take some courses to open a new life!
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• Cochin, India
13 Jul 13
It will better to update your profile in some job sites. There will be numerous companies who updates their vacancies in sites like naukri. You can apply directly or you may be getting a call if your skill matches their requirement.
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• China
13 Jul 13
I work on that way, but there are few updates in the website now. But believe everything will change.
• Nigeria
14 Jul 13
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• Iloilo, Philippines
12 Jul 13
You should look for a full time job.
• China
12 Jul 13
thank you. Yes, I should focus on looking for a full time job as soon as possible.
• Guangzhou, China
14 Jul 13
@CuteMandy what major you learn at university?I think you don't know which kind of job you want to do.
• Guangzhou, China
14 Jul 13
@CuteMandy I spent two weeks to find a job.
• Torrance, California
12 Jul 13
What place do you live?
• China
12 Jul 13
China!
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• Guangzhou, China
14 Jul 13
@CuteMandy ?????haha,I find a job at Shenzhen.Look for job is not easy,just like look for girlfriend,you need to wait.Bless you.
• China
15 Jul 13
@roger1990 Looking for a job is very easy, but I would like to find a job which I would like to go further, not just a job at the moment. And as a girl, I don't think your opinion of girlfriend is right. If you would like to meet a wonderful girl for your life, you had better change this kind of attitude. Dating with a girl is very easy, having a girl with you in your future life is not so easy.
• India
12 Jul 13
don't worry about all this. every thing gonna be all rite.. just have faith in you.
• China
13 Jul 13
Yes, I will remember that. Thank you!
• China
13 Jul 13
@Manishaa Sometimes I believe everything will be better, sometimes I feel terrible. Adjust my attutide all the time now!
• India
13 Jul 13
@CuteMandy: stay blessed dear!!!
• Toronto, Ontario
13 Jul 13
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• China
13 Jul 13
i think i have the same problem as you
• China
13 Jul 13
Thank you! I will have a try!
• Toronto, Ontario
15 Jul 13
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@narsha (466)
13 Jul 13
My advice is try to find a full time job!
• China
13 Jul 13
Working on it now.
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• Tokyo, Japan
13 Jul 13
xasda
• Shanghai, China
13 Jul 13
Maybe you should balance your whish and the reality, you can not always get what you like and that is the real life. Believe me, everybody have to face the choice, you should first clear about what you need mostly now and what you can do now, then you can get your answer. You said you have many thoughts and good idears, why not try to make full use of it, like working in the consultancy or something like that. Things will be better, don't give up!
• China
13 Jul 13
I will continue and try to go better. Thanks for your ideas!
• Jinan, China
13 Jul 13
I think you should find a job to get some money firstly, and just do these which you don't like. I mean you should support youself. Then decide to find your interesting job.sometime, a people just not only do they like,but aslo do they don't like.Good like.
• China
13 Jul 13
yes, you are right! I can't just find what I like.
• Guangzhou, China
13 Jul 13
I think you should grt down to think about what you wants ?
• China
13 Jul 13
Would like some challenges, my life is very simple before.
• Nanjing, China
13 Jul 13
I share the same feeling with you at the moment. Over the last twenty days, I delivered up to 100 resumes online, less than 30 have read it. It feels like you are in the roller-coaster. So bad. I am full of confidence at the very beginning. But, a bit upset now. Persnally, I have something in common with you, that is, if I have decided something in my mind, I would definitely stick to it. So, If you wanna to be a soho, just do it!
• China
14 Jul 13
Just do it now. No any effect.
• Bangalore, India
13 Jul 13
I suggest you wait for some time and just think what job exactly you are searching for, plan for it and check whether you are capable to do that job or not,If yes then go ahead otherwise take some certification which is relevant to your dream job, every job will earn the money but not every job will gives self satisfaction and more than that the work what we do should give pleasure and satisfaction to our life..
• China
14 Jul 13
Thinking can't help me anything now. My age is a problem to the bosses.
• Shanghai, China
14 Jul 13
No one born to enjoy working, No one born to reject relax. But everyone has to work, and everyone dose it everyday, So, keep clam, and carry on I'am sure u will definitely like that style of life.
• China
14 Jul 13
I like to work.
• Englewood, Colorado
14 Jul 13
fuc.king idiot
• China
14 Jul 13
While you come to answer this page, you are the biggest idiot in this world. Although I would like to respect you, I can't cheat my real voice.
• Shanghai, China
12 Jul 13
come on,everything will be ok
• China
12 Jul 13
Thanks! I believe in everything will be wonderful!
@Jen214 (4)
• Trinidad And Tobago
12 Jul 13
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• China
13 Jul 13
If you like, could you send me private message? Thanks!
• Raleigh, North Carolina
12 Jul 13
I'm sure you have already done this but you can look online for any available jobs in your areas and your friends may also have connections, my best advice is to find a job that pays nicely to hold you over until you can fully decide on what you want to do or what is right for you, everybody goes through this phase in their life but it will probably blow over, just make sure you'll have fun with what your doing and not dread it
• China
13 Jul 13
There are many graduates in China this period, so the salary is very low, if not, I have started to work last month. Maybe I should have made many attempts now.