Is it really practical for two people to be with only each other for the rest of their lives?
@Stefanie156 (10)
Evansville, Indiana
August 7, 2013 3:08pm CST
Don't get me wrong, I totally believe in monogamy, but I think you get different things from different people. When a relationship has more bad than good, should you stay? And for how long??
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@Rocker18 (6)
• Miami, Florida
7 Aug 13
This is a complicated situation right here... how most people will show in their relationships. There can be many reasons why to stay with that person, and then at the same time why to leave them. You always here about this couple saying that they love each other with all there heart, and never want to be away from each other... but behind those close doors, they might fight day in and day out, thinking on whether or not to stay.or it can be the complete opposite, how they seem like all they do is fight, but in the end they love each other with all they have. As some people will like to believe in the whole fairy tale ending, about finding there prince or princess, it could all be fake. I do believe that we can find someone we all truly love, that one special person in our heart. But then you can always be in love with someone who might not have the same feeling. So there is no point, in hurting yourself. you cant say that you will be in love with them indefinetly if you only stayed in that path... There are many roads to take, you can always go back, and choose a different route. Don't think this is the only one.
@Stefanie156 (10)
• Evansville, Indiana
7 Aug 13
That's my whole point exactly... Who I may love at one point in my life may change, because aren't we all constantly changing as people? If we change in one directions and your partner changes in another... It's almost bound to be separated. It's human nature. I if ever just stopped in my tracks and stopped changing and growing, I think that would be awful. Maybe the key is finding someone that is changing and growing as a person with you. Because LOVE is not enough! Women (or maybe men) can be in a physically and verbally abusive relationship and say, "But I love them". That does NOT mean its healthy to be together.
@Rocker18 (6)
• Miami, Florida
7 Aug 13
@Stefanie156 Exactly, they will fight you and tell you that they dont mean to hurt them, that there were just mad about something else, and make excuses for there actions. It is a horrible thing to witness, and what makes it worse is the fact that you will try your hardest to help them, to make them realize what they are doing is killing themselves, and in the end they will think that you are horrible, and trying to ruin there relationship, when in fact your trying to save them from that type of cruelty.
@Stefanie156 (10)
• Evansville, Indiana
7 Aug 13
@Rocker18 yes but you can never save someone from themselves. They have to WANT to do it all on their own. It is a fight you will lose every time.
