To be single or to be married

Marriage is about commitment and shareing. It's not 'either,or'. It's quite possible to combine marriage and a succesful career. I have been married for40 years and reached senior management in the voluntary/charitable setor; I ran organisations. At the end of the day, marriage is about friendship. I have friends who didn't marry until their 40s and older friends who married, divorced and married agin (a second marriage). What snookers marriage+career is children don't marry to have kids, marry then think about kids after a few years: build a relationship as a couple first.

At 25 I think you've got plenty of time to live out your dream before worrying about something like marriage. Go with your instincts.

Follow what you believe to be right for you. If something feels wrong, don't do it. You can ever be sure if somebody is the right person at the beginning. It takes time and commitment before you really know. But you will never know if you don't take the chance. Just don't take the chance on somebody whose behavior troubles you right at the beginning. That is a recipe for a disaster.

You can talk about your dreams, before deciding to marry someone. Once married, you may be missing something, but you will get something else, at least a family.

You are still young.So you should pursue your dearms!

Marriage is not something to rush into. It is not something that has to be done early in life. If you have a plan already for the future you need to continue with that plan. Someday the right man will come into your life and you will know by instinct if he is the right man or not. But you must follow your dreams or you will always wish that you had followed your dreams...