girl friends sucks the life

depends on where you are in your life and what you are looking for. My guess....are you in your late teens to early 20's? that is an age where many people don't want to think about settling down and having routines. they just don't want to be tied down to another person, because at the time in life, many people want to live the spontaneous life.....and if you are "committed" to someone.....you feel the need to check with them first, and that can put a damper on it. give it a few years..you will figure out whether you want to share your time with someone, or be a lone ranger.....either way is cool,just don't knock those that decide differently.