Im divorced now
@prettygirl_80650 (306)
United States
August 18, 2013 8:05pm CST
I don't know what im not good when it comes to failure. Almost every thing I have set out to do I managed to finish but my now ex-husband had filed for divorce in May of this year I am at a loss yesterday it was final. I feel like such a failure. Has any one else felt like this and if so how have you managed to get through the tough times?
1 response
@fruitcakeliz (2638)
• United States
19 Aug 13
personally for me it was more a sense of relief i felt when my divorce went through, as opposed to sadness. But then my ex and i had been separated for many years before we finalized the divorce, so i had already had plenty of time to process everything and was just waiting for that last tie to be cut.
when we first split up i suppose i felt the way you are feeling now. Wondering what i did to cause my marriage to fail (though looking back it was what we BOTH did/didn't do). We are both in much happier places in our lives now though. Just keep your chin up and write it off to a life/learning experience. Everyone makes mistakes, and it does not make you a failure.
