Ten tips-Approaching Women at the Bar

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I have to mention that this a top ten I found from the perspective of a woman. All I did is to share the advice she gives to us guys. Enjoy the article! No.10 Do relax Stop worrying about what I might think of you. I’ll probably like you a lot better and give you more time if you come over and talk to me naturally rather than using a line or nervously talking crap. Women can tell if a guy is confident or sh*tting his pants. Try thinking of something funny as you walk over so it isn’t some creepy “I’m confident” smile. No.9 Do focus on the group Talk to my mates, even if I'm out with some guys. Sure, you've seen me, but you should make me work for it a little. Girls like a chase too, and seeing someone make our friends laugh, or having a good time with them, is intriguing No.8 Do buy a round of shots It makes you seem fun, plus it’s a quick drink, meaning no long conversations necessary. No.7 Don't try and buy me Flashing the cash is not required on a first encounter. If you’re well-dressed, are good for a laugh and can order drinks well, then we will get the picture. You don’t need to paint it out for us. And if you do, you'll attract the wrong type of woman. No.6 Don't chat me up while eyeing the waitress I can see you... And my a rse is better than hers. No.5 Don't order our drinks for us We know our drinks and we know what we like, and it isn’t that blue frilly sweet one that comes with a pineapple wedge. If you insist on choosing them, then please refrain from drinks with names like Sex on the Beach and Slippery Nipple. No.4 Don't call me nicknames You may think calling me "baby" is sexy, and you'd be wrong. It isn’t cute, and it shows us you probably call every girl you meet in every bar just that. Nothing wrong with "excuse me." No.3 My eyes are up here, for the millionth time My eyes are on my face, and that’s all that needs to be said. If you can't resist, then at least pay them a compliment. If you can do it in an un-creepy way, and with some humor, we'll probably love it. Who doesn’t love being told they've got a perfect rack? No.2 Don't creep up and dance behind me The music is quiet and I’m not on the dance floor -- and even if I am, it isn’t an excuse to lurk up and push your junk on me. Introduce yourself to me first and I might let you grab me in time... after a drink. No.1 Don't drink too much Dutch courage is one thing, but drunk boys and interested girls don't go famously well together, trust us. Slurring your words and spilling your pint on me isn’t gonna make me take my clothes off -- apart from to change, in the privacy of my apartment, alone.