He Isn't Interested, Right? I Hate Mixed Signals!

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Here we go again. Another guy, I can't figure out. I don't understand why things have to be so complicated when it comes to finding that someone special. I just can't figure out if a man I go to church with is interested in me or not. Sometimes I feel like he gives off the signals that he does and other times, well, he leaves me baffled. Here is a short summary. I met him a little over a year at church. I started attending the church that he had already been going to. He was actually one of the first people to greet me when I arrived that day. He has always been really nice and to be honest, I really liked him whenever I first started to church there and still do. Anyway, in the past few months, he has seemed to get a little more involved around me. When I am talking to some people, he seems to hang around, even though he isn't involved in the conversation. He has taken a huge interest in my 6 year old son. He talks to him, thumb wrestles, gives him piggy back rides, and even drew him a "Minion" from the Despicable Me movies for him and named it after him. I really thought that maybe he was trying to get to me through my son, but on the other hand, maybe he just likes kids. As much as I have prayed about it and thought things might be going somewhere, I've gotten really confused again. I decided to kinda break the ice in a different way, maybe a more comfortable way, but he didn't jump on it. I decided to message him on facebook, even though he rarely gets on facebook. He rarely ever posts anything on there. Well, he has been out of town working so he wasn't able to be at church on Sunday. I sent him a message, not knowing if he would ever get on there to even read it, but it said, "Not sure if you ever get on here, but just wanted you to know that we missed you at church on Sunday. Especially your little thumb wrestling buddy! LOL I appreciate you and your parent's patience with him. He can be a handful!" I thought this would maybe get us talking outside of church and maybe get things going somewhere. My ipad shows that he read the message the next night, so I know he seen it, but he didn't respond to the message. However, he has updated his status on the day he read the message and the next day after that. He never updates his status, so I found it a little weird too. I guess I'm just to the point where I just wanna say, "Dude, if you are interested then make a move, do something, say something, anything!" I'm just getting so tired of the guessing game and I really want to find someone to spend time with. So, what is your opinion. Is him not responding to my message a sign of him trying to tell me that he isn't interested or what?