Why am I not the one who get married?
@xiaohongxiaohong (340)
October 9, 2013 9:25am CST
Colleges in my age, classmates, some of them are married recently. In office, one girl who is preparing for her wedding talks about her wedding schedule with her partners, I can see how excited she is from her happy face. The happy atmosphere makes me a little upset, I still have no boy friend for now, never have a romantic date before…I am envious now…
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
9 Oct 13
You are focused on living your life.
... or maybe that's the reason I'm not married (that I'm focused on me). Of course, my situation is 'different' (but isn't everybody's?) One generally 'falls in love with' their classmates or co-workers or friends or people their classmates/co-workers/friends/family set them up-with, yeah?
What each member of the couple does is: they make themselves 'useful' to the other member---generally 'doing what the other member needs done for them.' The more you show you are willing to do that (and the more you show that you need what they can do), the closer you get to becoming their life-mate 
@91zarate (13)
• San Salvador, El Salvador
9 Oct 13
Myabe you're not ready for a great step in your life as marriage is. You look for someone just for you and sometimes is more difficult because you are an unique person.
