Why are guys so mean to me?
@nayo25 (30)
Sri Lanka
October 13, 2013 9:12am CST
I'm a teenage girl, and guys are sooo mean to me, but nice to everyone else. I I don't ask for much, I don't want a guy to choose me over his friends when he really wants to be with them, I don't care how they look, or how cool they are, or what they wear. I don't reject guys because they hate romantic things, in fact, I hate romantic things too! I'm not an annoying status updater on Facebook, and I don't take any annoying pictures with a "duckface" or peace sign (I only have picture of me when other people take them). I dress nice enough, I might wear something revealing occasionally, or something that makes me look good. I do my hair so that it nicely shapes my face, an I wear a little make-up, but not too much, and I don't get all worked up over how I look. I don't care about styles or what's "in" at all. I play video games, I don't watch romantic movies, I don't do ANY stereotypical girl stuff. I don't even listen to new music, and I think people like Justin Bieber are butt ugly! I don't care if a guy is muscley, fat, or completely skinny. I just like it when people are nice, and have a good sense of humor. I let myself be noticed, but I don't flaunt myself either. I'm a unique person, and guys make fun of me for it. I've walked into rooms where they talk badly about me. Is it just because I won't put out for them? or is it something else??
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@fruitcakeliz (2638)
• United States
13 Oct 13
I think you need to not worry so much about it. you sound like a very nice young lady and eventually guys will realize that, and once they are tired of surrounding them selves with drama queens, and the "fake" girls, they will realize they want someone who is real, and down to earth. then the other girls will be in your shoes, wondering why guys don't like THEM.
Keep your chin up. the right guy will come around soon enough 
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@sunilmishra7756 (4263)
• Moradabad, India
13 Oct 13
The guys are never serious so don't take it seriously. The guys generally like fun loving persons. Do what others like,Instead of what you like and you will become the part of them.
Thanks
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@johnnygreybeard (180)
• United States
16 Oct 13
I am no expert on this. However, I do agree with Fruitcakeliz, and will add a little of my own opinion.
You may be too concerned with other people liking you. Sometimes you can expect more from others than they are willing to give. Training your mind to act as if you could care less if these young men like you or not may get a great reaction from other people that have been missing out on the opportunity to get to know you. If they see you thrive for their approval. they really make you beg for it. On the other hand, if you don't give them a care at all, they will get bored of making fun of you. Especially if you have new friends that refuse to let the others be around, and be mean to you.
I could have it all wrong, but that's my advice. Good luck, and keep posting!
