My character

Shenzhen, China
October 15, 2013 9:39am CST
I do not know if i have know more about myself . Not like to talking ,but smile mostly ,like to listen to others , Like to do thing by myself first , After having graduated from school , comunicate with the people around me , i have found this problem . During the years, once i say something , there're always some point make others feel speechless, and then will be a talking about my talk ,some one say'why do you think like that , it's common sense '' i am upset about it , Why ?That 's me , and that's my feeling about the things , and i do not know common sense actually . I know my character is not match with some situation , i need to be more open to speak out of myself and be more active , but there is always a sound say 'no , it's not me , if i change , i will not know myself ' i just want every thing to be it was , Maybe it is genetic . My first boss said 'you have to try and must have a change if live well in this world . ' yeah, i know . I need to try . So , i choose jobs that need to talk , need to be active , and have risk , to exercise myself . I need courage to do these , and have no confidence . ohhhhh......i lose the point again . i'm always confused there is friendship or love between each other in the world , my world , i just believe familys . and it seems . It's amazing . from two stranger, never know each other , then one chance , have a contact , know each other .....maybe in one year or two years , we're stay together, long years later , there will no contact , and be stranger again .
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• Moradabad, India
15 Oct 13
You are a shy natured person. Today it is considered that you know nothing, if people do not know you.An extrovert is considered better than introvert. Thanks
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• Shenzhen, China
16 Oct 13
Yeah , it's true , if compared to others ,i'm shy . Are you a pshchoanlayst or something like that? i found that you could always get the point others want to express . i thought i wrote very messy above , you know , i never pass my writing class in school ,,hahaha..........Thanks for your listening.
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• Moradabad, India
16 Oct 13
@knhandbag Thank you very much for your great response. We all are human beings,We all know about the pain and pleasure of each other.It is another thing that we have become so selfish that we do not try to understand the pains of each other. I think everything on humanitarian grounds.
• Nigeria
16 Oct 13
It is when you relate with people that they get to know you. Try to relate with people, you must not know people to relate with them.
• Canada
17 Oct 13
I used to be the same one but since I lost my brother and found that it is hard to move on and get use to not having him around, i have learned to accept that no matter how you wanna keep everything the same as it is, and keep everyone you loved just around you, you really have no control and at the end it is hard to move on and accept that someone can just leave me with a pain that is hard to take. you have to learn how to know, love and let go of people you love for any reason they have. Live your life the way you want me live but sometimes you have to dance with the music just to know your still capable of surviving in this World!
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