Can you love someone you don't like?

@star40 (12)
Giza, Egypt
October 18, 2013 1:57pm CST
is it a strange to love someone you don't like, don't like that one's behavior, opinions, hobbies,...? what we call that love?
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@sarah245 (20)
• Jamaica
21 Oct 13
If you don't like the person how can you love them? There must be something there to establish love.What many persons deem as love nowadays is pure infatuation.Love means you trust and respect the person.
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
21 Oct 13
It takes two? @sarah245 and others reading
• Chongqing, China
20 Oct 13
Are you sure you love her?How could you love one person that you don't like her behavior,opinions,hobbies?But in my opinion,if you really love someone,you would love everything about her.Isn't it?
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• New York, New York
21 Oct 13
If you do not like somebody, you'll never love him.
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• Dominican Republic
19 Oct 13
Love is supposed to be unconditional, so yes. If you truly love someone, it doesn't matter that he/she has hobbies, opinions or behavior that you don't support. Besides, you're never gonna like EVERYTHING about a person. No one's perfect, so there's that.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
20 Oct 13
Yes, we can ... as long as we don't get hypnotized by the media to think that "love" is just 'liking A LOT.' 'Love' is actually an action. You 'love' by providing goodness to another. Since you naturally gravitate toward those whom you 'like,' you're more likely to 'love' them too ... and one of them is likely to 'love' you in return, providing the spark to get your relationship turned on!
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• Christiansted, Virgin Islands
20 Oct 13
I happen to love someone I don't like... its a family member. for me I cant help but love them its the relationship we formed before I realized as an adult I don't like them anymore. I often wonder if it would be easier if I could stop loving them because all they do is cause harm to me.
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• Australia
26 Oct 13
I think it is possible to love someone but not like them, I know I love my father but I definitely don't like him, I realise this is probably not what you meant by your question but anything is possible.
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
19 Oct 13
I think they call that opposites attract. Yes, I think so providing there is something that can be shared in common. To keep love we need to be around a person so there has to be something that is compatible?
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• Moradabad, India
19 Oct 13
Sometimes we get married with a girl whom we do not like but seeing her simplicity,sympathetic heart and excellent behaviour,we start loving her. The beauty of a wife is only a nine days wonder but merits live through out the life.Beauty touche the eyes only but merits touch the heart. Thanks
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• Qingdao, China
21 Oct 13
In most people's opinion, "like" should be the basis of "love" , if the basis does not exist, where the love can grow from?
• Hangzhou, China
20 Oct 13
NO, obviously ," love" is more deep feeling than" like",
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• Nashik, India
21 Oct 13
You love try again and share your opinion. Check her opinion and decide future plan. If she said ' YES ' so yes and she said ' NO ' so no.
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• New York, New York
22 Oct 13
never
• New York, New York
13 Feb 14
I think if you are noticing to the bad or wrong habits in-spite of good things what all other will do, then definitely its true love!!