What do guys really want?
By Laurelle11
@Laurelle11 (409)
Australia
October 26, 2013 7:11am CST
Really what do guys really want? Do they want the barbie girl girlfriend that they can show off to their mates? Do they want a mother like girlfriend that will take care of them and do everything for them? No matter what it is that they really want, when they get it, if they do, are they willing to do what they can to keep it and be happy or are they always looking at the other side of the fence to see if there is something better yet that they could possible want? The same can be said about women, does anyone really know what they want and are they happy and content when they get it or are they always destined to want something they don't have, can they never be happy with what they do have?
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@jewcial (135)
• Shanghai, China
29 Oct 13
Hey dude ,this issue is not only existing in ur country , but also in my country ; as u know that almost every human being wanna find a ideal right person that beautiful,rich ,hot figure and do everything like a personal servant ,do u think that will come ture ? Obviously not !But everyone has right to dream ,u know the dream will be changed by the reality day by day, so do not confused with it ,just let it be ,time will tell us how to do it ,and time will give us a reasonable answer ! So dude ,r u satisfied with it ?
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@Laurelle11 (409)
• Australia
29 Oct 13
That is good and you are right, dreams make life interesting and give us something to work towards. Thank you.
@jewcial (135)
• Shanghai, China
31 Oct 13
@Laurelle11 It's okey dude , btw wish ur dreams come ture !
@SKsteven (32)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
28 Oct 13
well, i'm a guy. in my relationship, i'd want me & my partner to be loyal to each other and not to stick around with each other 24/7.
need some space to hang out with buddies too, & vice versa. lots of tolerance and understanding.
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@Laurelle11 (409)
• Australia
29 Oct 13
I like that, loyalty and trust but with the freedom to still be yourself. Thanks for you comment.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
28 Oct 13
It depends from person to person what they actually want. A man usually want all the qualities in a woman and so does a woman. However, no one is 'complete'. We need to accept each other with positive and minus points.
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@Laurelle11 (409)
• Australia
28 Oct 13
I totally agree, no one is perfect and that is what makes us interesting. Thanks for your comment.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
27 Oct 13
The first thing I think of when you ask what guys want: obedience.
If one wants you, he wants you to just be the way you are at his command.
I mean; he'd LIKE IT if you fit all sorts of ideals, but that idealism isn't as important as the fact that you surrender yourself to him.
@Laurelle11 (409)
• Australia
28 Oct 13
Well that is interesting but rather than obedience, wouldn't honesty and mutual respect be more important. Thankyou for your opinion.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
28 Oct 13
Maybe that's what you would like from a guy, but I would think of those as part of obedience.
"Honesty is not always the best policy." I mean, one should usually tell the truth; but if my girl (for some good reason) had to do something I wouldn't like hearing about and so made up a cover-story to keep me from trying to find out, I would appreciate it.
And "mutual respect"? Maybe I don't quite understand that, but I only want to be respected as she WANTS to respect me (whether she needs to think I "earned" her respect or she needs to feel that it's 'by her God-given grace' that she respects me ...
(you know, 'whether it's because I'm good to her or just because of her love for me 
).
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@Laurelle11 (409)
• Australia
29 Oct 13
@mythociate I don't think I would be the only one who would like those qualities in a relationship though I don't understand how you see them as a part of obedience, to me they imply equality.
@sunilmishra7756 (4263)
• Moradabad, India
28 Oct 13
There are two tragedies in life --one is not to get your heart's desires, the other is to get it.Desires are insatiable. Whatever qualities we desire and expect,some of them,at least,should be present in you too.Everybody desires to live long,but no one would be old.
A bride groom expects much more qualites from a bride than he has.
Thanks.
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