How Self-Centered Do You Have to Be to Think Your Heart "Broken"? #SelfCentered #Heartbreak

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A 'close friend' Facebook-posted a statement something-like "I'm not trying to fix any hearts that I didn't break. If that makes me a bad person, so be it." I 'comforted' (corrected?) her with the comment to the effect of 'Every heart is "incomplete" from the start. You help a man realize that when you start to show him how your heart can make his complete; but when you-show a man how it could be complete & then -tear that possibility away from him, it feels (to him) like you're breaking his heart. Oh, it's not "your fault" (well, it is a little); but the only person more to-blame than you is 'himself'; and mans doesn't likes to blames themselves ' (that bold part was "bad grammar on purpose") So--while that's mostly 'to comfort her'--I suppose that view can also help all you rejected, unrequited lover-boys out there. Just let your incomplete soul do Our Father's will the best that it can, and know that the right spouse will be drawn to your Spirit-guided labors