To help or not to help?
By Miss G
@nhailojaye (207)
Philippines
November 18, 2013 4:59pm CST
its my ex, she keeps on asking me for help about something. well, i know i had enough of her but she keeps on mentioning her mom whom I'm fond of, and its like she's wooing me so much to help her out.
honestly, i really dont want to help anymore. I am done helping her for the nth time now and she keeps on coming back because she needs me to do something for her, again. Mygash! Why cant she goes to that girl she chooses over me? Cant that girl help her out that she needs to bother my life now, and even blackmailed me with her mom..?
me, helping her leaves a very false impression to everyone who knows that we're already over. Though my intention is to just help, plainly help, other people and she, even thinks that still there is something from me.. oh, how i wanted to punch them all in the face for that nonsense thoughts.
feel free to share your opinions mylotters. thanks! :)
1 response
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
21 Nov 13
I know how you feel. You just want to help, but there seems to be a Shadow of a Relationship shading you & the other whenever you help.
All you can do is keep your focus on what you are being when you're around them---a friend, at most. Or less; an acquaintance who happened to be around when they needed help.