THE MORE THE FIRE IS COVERED UP, THE MORE IT BURNS
@sunilmishra7756 (4263)
Moradabad, India
January 3, 2014 10:48am CST
The more you deny the children to do something, the more they do it. It is a natural thing in everybody that they take more interest in those things which are forbidden.The elder persons of the family want that their adolescent children should not watch the vulgar sights on T.V. or computer but the children do this in solitude.
Another example for it is that a person who has been suffering from diabetes likes to have sweet things more and more. He feels like eating sweet things everytime.
If we deny a child to go near the fire but he will go there again and again.The people like taking alcohol, smoking and opium etc.
The real discipline lies in us we can not get the good results by coercion.The advice of a doctors is always for the good of a sick person but patients hardly accept it.
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@sunilmishra7756 (4263)
• Moradabad, India
4 Jan 14
The children are very much playful and make mischief and a child of one year is never taught or suggested.He does what he likes.
Thanks.
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@primedrive (71)
• Blacktown, Australia
5 Jan 14
I completely agree with you. Deny a person of their desires and they are tempted to do all they can to obtain them. When you discuss the pros of cons of taking such action together, instead of simply demanding they not do these things, they may resist. Some may still go ahead but when they realise it was not so exciting or necessary they will remember that conversation and humbly thank you for it.
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@sunilmishra7756 (4263)
• Moradabad, India
5 Jan 14
The children are generally obstinate. They want everything instantly. They do not have understanding power howsoevermuch we explain.PEOPLE SAY THAT WOMEN ARE ALSO THE CHILDREN OF LARGER GROWTH.
PEACE IN A FAMILY CAN NOT BE ACHIEVED BY FORCE BUT UNDERSTANDING.
WHEN VANITY DISAPPEARS, PEACE OF MIND STARTS.
Thank you very much for a Prudent comment.
