Why men would prefer someone else's wife
By liyihong
@liyihong (3)
Beijing, China
January 25, 2014 7:48am CST
Marriage , the economy is the foundation , love houses, sex is the food , the children of wealth , respect is a talisman , confused happiness , sweet is Youyanjiangcu , mutual suspicion only to the grave .
Economy is the foundation. Marriage is not a castle in the air , it is very, very realistic , very, very real live, just accompany people you love live Bale. It is inseparable from daily necessities to live , this is life , there is no economic basis is certainly no way to live . Fall in love when you can not consider these , but once into the marriage have to be considered to be non . Some people say that marriage is the tomb of love , it shows that they love just floating in the air , at best, is full of hope, full of passion bubbles only, destined not for long. Love needs responsibility, the responsibility of marriage is love . To assume this responsibility , men and women should strive to fight the economic basis for the marriage.
Love is housing . If we say that marriage is the seat of the siege , the siege of the house of love is not living in a house of men and women could not withstand the wind and rain , or they fled , or they died . So whether you are a first love after marriage , or first love after marriage , your marriage will be long-lasting, because you love the house .
Sex is the food. I remember the newspaper to discuss the so-called " sexless marriage" , I do not believe killed . Sex is the marriage of food , without it, men and women will appear hungry , they will inevitably go out of the city in search of food . Over time, men and women will not lost their desire to hang around outside the food back to the city starve. Of course, monotonous food to eat more, will be boring . So buy some " recipes " do some delicious meals , help make your marriage happier .
Children are wealth. Modern people are unwilling to raise children , the children are considered a burden , even a burden. In fact, the child is a valuable asset , is the couple 's family heirloom , a marriage of love Stand . I do not have experience less than once have you never give up . I did not think the child's family is poor wretch !
Respect is a talisman . Respect is a talisman of marriage , it was considered to tie the knot , is not a person , but also what kind , what is respected? Wrong ! You know, before the marriage, but you two unrelated people, ah ! Even married, you still two people, two different people . Respect for each other , which is independent of the other as a person, that is, increase the distance that the two men , this will be more appealing to both close to each other . It's like two magnet , maintain an appropriate distance from each other will make them more attractive .
Confused happiness . Chinese have a saying , " woolly-headed ", the same applies to marriage. The so-called confused, called tolerant nature. Everyday life he ( she ) may have some bad habits , and sometimes they can not change , you should be tolerant ; when he ( she ) can not, as you wish to be transformed into the kind of person you want , you should be tolerant , after all, he ( she ) is not you ; when you stumble upon some other little secrets , such as lied , such as saved a little of their own money , for example on the phone occasionally some ambiguous message, then you should also be tolerant, you can remind , must not put this as the other side of the handle, prick each other out from time to time .
Sweet is Youyanjiangcu . Many people take the sweet as a derogatory term to use. I think the sweet marriage which is more essential , no matter how long it took to get married , have a timely manner sweet : the husband should always boast beautiful and attractive wife , the wife to the husband often boast talent and charm. When you say it , which means that you are still the same as it did admire him ( her ) . Of course, I stand face to face with the couple should boast , I do not advocate not like to boast in front of others , I think it is a show off !
Mutual suspicion only to the grave . Couples have even the most basic trust not, the outcome can only be the case !
1 response
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32697)
• Calgary, Alberta
26 Jan 14
As they say, Love cant feed a starving stomach
@budidoctor (6)
• Bandung, Indonesia
26 Jan 14
marriage is one biggest dream in this Life, believe that
@aanku008 (48)
• India
26 Jan 14
@CaptAlbertWhisker , Yeah your are right. But Love has a power to battle with starving stomach also.
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