TO GIVE POISON OPENLY IS BETTER THAN BACK-STABBING
@sunilmishra7756 (4271)
Moradabad, India
March 12, 2014 12:11pm CST
Every man is not bad in the world but some of us are so wicked that it can not be spoken through the words. These persons are so selfish that they never hesitate in doing worst. In news we can daily read such incidents that even the shame feels shy to see their misdeeds.
The structure of the society is made in such a way that good and bad both type of people are present. In ancient days the number of good people was more than bad people. For example four or five years old girls are being raped brutally. For sake of money a mother can sell her children. If a brother and a sister are going people stare at them and see with doubtful eyes and try to seek some illicit relationship.
Money has become God on earth, people are not ready to listen to morality. They say that the immoral people are getting richer and richer and people of morality are getting poorer and poorer. PEOPLE TALK VERY LOVINGLY ON FACE AND BEHIND THE BACK THEY FIND OUT THE CHANCE TO BACK-STAB.
EVERYBODY HAS TWO FACES, ONE FOR PUBLIC AND ONE FOR PRIVATE. THEY DO NOT TAKE TIME TO ALTER THEIR EXPRESSIONS.
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@okathelegend (2)
• Pune, India
15 Mar 14
Well I do not agree with you that in ancient times, there were more good people that the bad people. I truly believe that you have to take in account the population of the ancient times to the world population currently,(If you deep and explore the stats) you will definitely find that the ratio of good to bad people will remain the same. In fact in the ancient ages, there were more barbaric and brutal individuals driven by their thirst for power. In today's world power is all about money. Thus, talking about India strictly-- The bad people mostly are just corrupt and just a few of them indulge in heinous crimes. As far as the other points in the article, a mother used to sell children in olden days as well. Its just that there was no media coverage and the same never got reported or told to us. The reason people back stab is due to the immense competition since our population is very large. If in ancient times, our ancestors were smart, they would not have produced cricket teams after cricket teams of children and a lot of the problems facing us would have been solved.. Not just the back stabbing issue.
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@sunilmishra7756 (4271)
• Moradabad, India
15 Mar 14
You are right but to some extent only.If you want to compare modern people and old people. You can easily compare your grand father with yourself.It is a common thinking today among the guys that they feel themselves greater than ancient people. I did not say that everybody was a great in ancient times but I can say with full confirmation that more than the people of today.At that time, men were of words, honesty was the best policy. History is nothing but biography of great and the brave people.You must have heard the name of truthful Harish Chandra. How many Harish Chandras are there today.Shivaji, Maharana Pratap and many other great persons are the shining examples Shakespeare is still worshipped in England. Tulsidas, Soordas, Rahimdas, Kabirdas. Can we have people like them today.
Ahilya Bai, Jija Bai, Luxmi Bai and many other great women set an example for the world to follow.
Many brave persons were not written in the History because THE MEN WHO MAKE A HISTORY HAD NO TIME TO WRITE IT.
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@okathelegend (2)
• Pune, India
15 Mar 14
@sunilmishra7756
Sir, never did I want to imply that today's generation is greater than the ancient one. I believe its pointless comparing both. The great always remain the great. As far as history is concerned, which history are we talking about?? the history that we all learnt in school?? Every educated Indian will agree that what we learnt in school was just written by some stupid congress leader trying to glorify themselves. A lot of the facts have been misinterpreted and the bitter truth was never told to us. Anyways I do believe there is still a lot to learn from history but we live in the present and lets figure out how to make this world a better place. Additionally, would like to say that there are some really great people in the world today who inspire a lot of us. There may never be another shivaji or maharana pratap because greatness in today's world is not defined by a war but there are a few people who follow the virtues of these greats, Hopefully our great grandchildren will read the history of the current lot. Anyways, love the way u write. Keep up the good work and keep on writing. Cheers!!!
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@sunilmishra7756 (4271)
• Moradabad, India
15 Mar 14
@okathelegend
Now I agree with you. I also like your strong comments very much.According to me, He that never changes his opinions never corrects his mistakes, and will never be wiser on tomorrow than he is today.
To know how to grow old is the master work of wisdom, and one of the most difficult chapters in the art of living.
Old money, old dog, old friends, old books and manners and experienced persons always accompany you in critical time.
WE MUST CONFORM TO A CERTAIN EXTENT TO THE CONVENTIONALITIESOF SOCIETY,FOR THEY ARE THE RIPENED RESULTS OF A VARIED AND LONG EXPERIENCE.
ALMOST EVERYTHING GREAT HAS BEEN DONE BY YOUTH.I agree that there was never a time when good or bad people were not on earth. If we change our attitude the world will be changed for us.
Thanks a lot for a considerable comment.
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@songst557 (232)
• China
14 Mar 14
Yeah,money dominated the world,it's the truth,it's a moral and modern society seemly,in fact,it's still a jungle world,Goverment tell us to be a moral person,but they're doing the opposite thing,they're teaching people what to do with their behaviors.Now,it's a bad loop,only immoral people can climb up to the peak,and they're good model to guide people's thought to be more immoral.
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@sunilmishra7756 (4271)
• Moradabad, India
15 Mar 14
Yes, you are right. Thank you so much for a very good comment.
If two pitchers are put side by side, one is full of milk and another full of mud. If we break the milk will not come out of the pitcher which was filled with mud. So these leaders do what they had been doing since their childhood. A robber will always remain robber and he knows only to commit robbery so he will do the same. HABITS DIE HARD.
@songst557 (232)
• China
17 Mar 14
@sunilmishra7756
Exactly,the habit they developed comes from their parents,teacher,and the society,I ever want to be a teacher,I believe that the most important quality of being a teacher is moral,treat students with fair and kind heart,so that you can give them a different view of the society.
Today,such moral teacher is rare,I'm not saying none,but it's really rare.They're all struggling for improving the performance of class,some investigate background of parents to see what kind of benefit they can get,they arrange students to be class leader,whose parents gave them money or gift,how can you imagine these teacher could educated moral students.I mean,school is the initial model of society.
You topic is also a confusion of mine,I think it's also yours,what shall I do in this society,in this benefit prior society,I might need to melt into it,otherwise,I couldn't survive,or survive hard.But how? this is not my nature,against my behavior rules,broke my bottom line.So finally guess the result would be either I stand up and fight it,or I surrender to it.
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@sunilmishra7756 (4271)
• Moradabad, India
17 Mar 14
@songst557
I really respect your touching emotions about the teachers and I like your elevated thoughts.Today, the teachers are not of ancient times who preferred morality to money. But, in those days teachers were self made and they did not get the appointment from some authority. Now a days the base of appointments is alltogether different from ancient times. Teachers join this job only under compulsion, when they are not able to get the better job somewhere else.
Morality is not the quality of teachers only, it may be present in any person but very rarely.
We seek these qualities in others but we do not want to develope this rare quality in ourselves.Society is full of good and bad people and being the part of the society, we also have some vice and virtues. We run after the money not the virtues that make a society better. We go by the appearances and appearances are often deceptive and we are generally deceived. The structure of the society can be changed still if everybody wants to change himself.
If we make somebody lion, first of all he will swallow us.Actions are always better than teachings. Even the teachers do not want to follow those teaching which they teach others. So their teachings are ineffective.
THE MORE I SEE MAN, THE MORE I LIKE THE DOGS.
@rchoudhray (1)
• Mumbai, India
14 Mar 14
The structure of the society is made in such a way that good and bad both type of people are present. In ancient days the number of good people was more than bad people. For example four or five years old girls are being raped brutally. For sake of money a mother can sell her children. If a brother and a sister are going people stare at them and see with doubtful eyes and try to seek some illicit relationship. Money has become God on earth, people are not ready to listen to morality. They say that the immoral people are getting richer and richer and people of morality are getting poorer
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@sunilmishra7756 (4271)
• Moradabad, India
14 Mar 14
Thanks a lot for such a comment as is similar to my article.
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