why i feel so upset?

Zhengzhou, China
April 9, 2014 12:40am CST
Everyday i do anything that I should do,and do my best to let the guys around me feel relaxing.All these things I do can't make me feel happy,just upset.I even couldn't known which I do like to do. What should I do to make myself feel optimistic? I do need your help!
1 response
• Singapore, China
9 Apr 14
Maybe you care too much about what others will think of you. Focusing too much on others will only blur your own existence... try to live more " self-centred", you will finally find the thing you are truely digging into and the people you really like, right?
• Zhengzhou, China
11 Apr 14
But I always think if I don't care the trouble that my friends facing,they would think that I'm not friendship.I hate alone.How could I deal with the trouble?
• Singapore, China
14 Apr 14
@Anna31 Dear, showing concern to friends' trouble is definately the way of telling them you care about them. But the real problem is how do you define " friends" in your daily life? As for myself, I only care people who i really care about, as for the rest, if they come to me for help, i can give a them a hand. Maybe you can take the same method? Make your life easier. Anyway, you are not a savior, hehe