How to have a strong and compassionate relationship?
By Ivy Do
@believeandsmile (13)
San Jose, California
July 11, 2014 4:00am CST
There are a lot of relationships out there that lasts and some last only a short amount of time. Why? Well there are a few key points that you have to focus on when you're in a relationship. Some of them are care, responsibility, understanding, and most important of all is trust.
Care: Well everyone wants to be care for right? Let your beloved one feel that you care for them and let them know that you're the one for them, the "Mr.Right" or "Ms.Right." When I talk about care, I didn't mean like care for a baby. I meant do special things on your special days like your anniversary, their birthday, or let them feel special on your dates. Let them know that you care.
Responsibility: Well I'm sure that you know you have to take responsibility for what you've done. Don't make excuses and hide your mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes so taking responsibility for your actions is a big part of keeping a great relationship. Your beloved one will know that they can rely on you and know that you're serious about your relationship.
Understanding: ok, for the ladies out there~ I, myself gets jealous and frustrated about our boyfriend/husband about being too busy or being too ignorant. Well we have to understand that they have a reason to do that. Don't get frustrated because he didn't answer your text or call right away. He might be busy or too tired to reply. We need to give them some space as well.
For guys: although I said ladies have to understand men, it doesn't mean and guys don't need to understand women. Well that's totally wrong.You get upset when she gets jealous too easily or doesn't give you any space and just cling on you 24/7 especially married men out there. Well you have to understand that they're afraid to lose you and protect you. So don't get upset because of that.
Trust: Trust is a short word but it's very hard to earn and understand. My boyfriend and I learned a lot from this one word. We need to trust one another and believe in one another. The bond between you two is stronger than anything if you trust. Trusting someone is a very hard thing to do but if you trust each other it's like you two became one. You ca do anything with that special person and tell them anything because you know that they will listen to you. Nobody is perfect, but as long as we trust that person will fix their mistakes that will be your perfect relationship.
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