Do you agree?

I agree that we don't necessarily love just because we are mentally and emotionally able to, but I don't fully agree with what we tend to love. Clearly, we love obviously "lovable" things. The only reason they're described as lovable is because they are able to be loved. I think what the quote means by a "thing that is lovable" is something like a teddy bear or a puppy. I think what it means by "something that is not lovable" is maybe a mean person or a rainstorm. But people ARE drawn to love things that aren't good, as one would expect something "lovable" to be. For example, there's the classic notion of a girl being attracted to the "bad boy" in a story, and in real life sometimes people do very quickly feel love for people who treat them badly. I don't think there's really a definitive answer for why or what we tend to love.

When I read anything about love I always ask myself what does the writer mean by love? It seems to be different for many. I think the writer is talking about the kind of love when we have an attraction too but maybe I kind of respect as well? Yes I agree.

I just hope love easily , we don't need to talk too much and she or he knows me.