Mistake Cannot be Erased but we can Face it with Tolerance
@easybranches (442)
Bangkok, Thailand
September 3, 2014 1:50am CST
Nobody is perfect and everyone may lack of something, many are looking for perfection or want to be among the perfectionists.
We all have flaws in our character, sometimes with shortcomings, lack of knowledge or making a mistake, so tolerance is the only way to keep the peace.
If we immediately interpret incorrectly on something, our blood flow will increase thus we might respond directly with the aggravated indignant.
It could turn our cheerful mood into a dark side and we actually cut ourselves short and we do not deserve it because that is complete unnecessary for us.
But if we look at everything positively, we could know immediately where we stand exactly, so we will not set up an evil movement against it outward.
We rightly learn at that moment who is doing these things or has brought us into this position.
After which we can discover either it is done intentionally or whether there is some misunderstandings which need to be discussed judiciously for the correct cause.
Irritability only gives frustration for ourselves and that is unwise, because we may lose out on the nerve control to harvest an evil mood inside our mind, so better keep smiling.
We cannot erase the mistake that has already been made, but we still can tolerate the same, so we can face it and then peacefully demystifying afterwards.
I wish you a healthy life.
Kindly Regards,
Author Jan Jansen
http://poems.easybranches.com/mistake-cannot-be-erased-but-we-can-face-it-with-tolerance.html
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
3 Sep 14
@easybranches
I like all your subjects. They seem centered around personal development. I see a small flaw in this one. Nothing major, just a little thing really, hardly worth mentioning. How do you arrive at many in the article? It could be an observance or a presumption that many people want to be perfectionists when in fact they are just striving to be better. I can understand the term being applied to the snob type that is arrogant about their character but they would most likely not even read an article like the one you wrote. I think your audience would be more focused on improving themselves, not looking for perfection.
I do enjoy reading your articles when I can.
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@BELACK (3)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
5 Sep 14
OK..thanks for the advice, I may be the best and be better,.
@chinesewiseman (96)
• Shandong, China
4 Sep 14
why people will make mistakes,I prefer to want to know ?
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
6 Sep 14
@chinesewiseman
I want to know the reason a person would make a mistake?
or
What is wrong with people that causes them to make a mistake in the first place?
or
something else
not sure what you mean, sorry. ??
@chinesewiseman (96)
• Shandong, China
7 Sep 14
@Bluedoll Many people know that people would make mistakes, but they rarely know why people would make mistakes. And this undoubtedly is the most key problem. Obviously, we do not still have acknowledged truth. When the real behavior standard appears, everyone accord to its request to do.At this time,whether people will still make a mistake?
Of course, we must also understand what is wrong and what is perfect. Especially they need to form a unified standard.
Everyone can not use different their standards to measure a certain event,otherwise they will draw to a different conclusion. For example, a lot of behavior you think is wrong, while others think is correct. But a person can not do all of the standard, so a lot of people would say people will all make mistakes.
Mistakes and perfect can not be defined too broad,fuzzy and unrealistic. We need to be simple and clear, therefore it is only feasible.
In fact, as long as your actions do not harm others, your behavior is correct. You never do harm to others, then your life is perfect. And everyone can do this, then the society is perfect.
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@BELACK (3)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
5 Sep 14
right, what we have is not perfect, all the way of life of each.