Pride Comes Before A Fall

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When I was hard up with two kids any help offered was gratefully received such as clothes , food or babysitting. Now I have a friend who is in the same position as me , without kids , she moans and complains about not having a warm coat or enough money. So we have been trying to help her out a bit without treating her like a charity case. I gave her one of my coats which was fleece lined with a water proof outer. That was not long enough. Another friend gave her a coat which would have fitted her well , but that was the wrong colour. So rather than have two warm coats she refused both , i cannot understand her as she has no objection to me buying her a cup of coffee while we are out and about. I have known her for years and thought we were good friends that helped each other out. The years have been good to me with a husband that works a good job. I just wish I had the courage to say shut up moaning then. How would you handle this tricky situation as I do value her friendship .