Did I get rejected by this guy?

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I've been talking to this older man online for awhile he's in his 40's and I'm in my late 20's. I told him that sometimes I have intimate thoughts about him. I sent him a sexy picture and he asked me for another one. I asked him if he wanted to have sex with me he said no but he sent me a picture of a younger girl being spanked by an older man. I asked him if he even thought about it once he laughed. If he doesn't think we are compatible I don't get why he's asked me to come to his state. He also has Aspergers or Austism he made a status about how he's been ostracized by everyone. He and I live in different states and he's asked me a few times to come and visit him. He even said he would meet me at a hotel. He said that him and I weren't compatible but he sent me a picture of a rose on Valentine's Day. He said that he thinks I'm a nice woman I don't get why he even called me to begin with. If he thought he and I weren't compatible or why he agreed to meet me. He says when I flirt with him it flatters his ego. He called me a few times I don't get him.