Inner thoughts

Who's who, now? If my guess is right, 'you' & 'the person you're talking-to' are/were in 'a relationship' (the 'us' that the person "tore apart"). I was thinking about that 'arrangement' when I heard the (I think) Kelly Clarkson (?) song "Stronger" ("What doesn't kill you makes you stronger Stand a little taller Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone What doesn't kill you makes a fighter Footsteps even lighter Doesn't mean I'm over cause you're gone What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, stronger Just me, myself and I") Read more at Somebody ("Weird" Al) needs to make a 'parody' of that song that's 'more-correct' (She says elsewhere in the song that she "found someone new," and THAT is how she's stronger ... she's not "better-off alone," but more like she & her ex weren't 'right together' like she is with her new ) I think that's the 'know we're wrong but feel so right' you're sensing---there are places where you & the other are a BAD match, but 'a bad match' is better than 'no match at all.' You MIGHT think of each other more as 'brother-&-sister (who occasionally make love),' serving the purpose of the other's "mate" while at-the-same-time looking for someone who serves it better (both looking for one for him AND for yourself).

Please remember that no one could disturb you till you want to disturb you. If someone hurt you, s/he is at fault, not you. Let it go. Time is a great healer and gradually, you will come to terms. Life is for living happily, not about cribbing about past. All the best.