Weird Crush Situation

"...my feelings are all jumbled."
Toyonaka, Japan
July 23, 2015 11:39pm CST
I feel kind of weird. You see, my crush is named Hiroshi. He sits always at the seat next to me out of habit and sometimes we catch each other staring. I always thought he was much crush. He's funny, nice, cute, and even though he's not strong or too handsome, he's smart and I like him. But for some reason, my feelings are suddenly all jumbled. It's always too hard to talk to him, so we never say more than "hey" to each other. Thing is, there's another kid, Taiji, who sits in front of me. He's awesome and my friend, but I never thought of him as a crush. Then, one day, I realized... "How come it's so easy to talk to Taiji and not Hiroshi?" And then I thought...maybe Taiji's more right for me. He's fun, understanding...a lot of things Hiroshi is. Advice, please! I really need it.
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4 responses
• United States
24 Jul 15
Well, in my experience....it's just really hard to talk to smart guys. (I'd like to think I'm pretty smart myself)....and I STILL have a hard time talking to them....even if we have the same intelligent subjects to talk about. They are usually not very talkative, and that's because they've got so much going on upstairs. They're always quiet....always mysterious... I LOVE smart guys. So keep trying. And if it doesn't work out, then give him to me. haha
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• Toyonaka, Japan
24 Jul 15
Well, yes. I'm even smarter than him, ha ha. He's smart for our age...I'm smart for two grades above that. Sooo...I thought maybe he'd be attracted to that...but he doesn't seem to care for girls all too much...especil since I am the only person crushinon him.
• Toyonaka, Japan
24 Jul 15
Ugh I mean "crushing" Sorry!
• United States
24 Jul 15
stop overthinking things. Talk to BOTH of them (it won't hurt, i promise!) and see which one make you smile,makes you giggle, keeps you thinking of them after you talk with them. You can have crushes on more than one person at once.....but crushes mean nothing until you act on them and find out if they are reciprocated....
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
24 Jul 15
If you like Hiroshi, please shed away your shyness and hesitation. You could always start the conversation - by commenting on weather or about any general topic. Once you initiate conversation with him, he may open up and may share his views with you. It is said - "only beginning is hard". So once you have made the beginning, things may move ahead smoothly. Best of Luck.
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
24 Jul 15
Well, it seems to me that this Hiroshi likes you. And I also see that Taiji does not think that way. I feel he sees you as a friend and nothing more. Thats why you are able to talk to him much more easy. You must have a crush on Hiroshi otherwise you wouldn't be writing this post.