To love or to be loved ?
By Ebenz
@writerjo (2540)
India
August 5, 2015 1:51pm CST
Yes this is a topic I have presented before you .. who feel bliss
, the one who get love 
or the one who give love . Correct ?
You got my point I think ..
I loved a girl .. 
I felt bliss at that moment .. but I don't know whether she felt the same feeling what I got ... She got a love from me .. I have given my love to her. Assuring that it was not sex or romance. . It was a complete matter of heart and heart only .. eyes and eyes only ... Not touched one another ... You guys is in a situation or was in a situation ..
Come , discuss , respond this interesting topic !
, the one who get love or the one who give love . Correct ? You got my point I think ..
I loved a girl .. I felt bliss at that moment .. but I don't know whether she felt the same feeling what I got ... She got a love from me .. I have given my love to her. Assuring that it was not sex or romance. . It was a complete matter of heart and heart only .. eyes and eyes only ... Not touched one another ... You guys is in a situation or was in a situation ..
Come , discuss , respond this interesting topic !
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9 responses
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
5 Aug 15
I would rather love somebody than be loved by somebody and not be able to return their feelings. Unrequited love is bad enough and I'd rather me be the one to suffer through it than have somebody else be hurt.
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
31 Aug 15
@Jlyn10 You mean to force myself to love somebody I don't? Sorry, but life doesn't work that way.
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@Boonie1 (425)
• Ashdod, Israel
16 Aug 15
To love and be loved. these 2 cannot be seperated to actually be blissfully happy. to love someone that has no feelings towards you can be soul crushing, not being able to return the love to someone that loves you can be just as bad sometimes....so yeah, its like playing tennis with no racket, it cannot work
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
1 Sep 15
If you love someone, do not expect that your love should be reciprocated. If you have depth in your love, the other person would respect you and would automatically return your love. It is a mutual kind of thing and it requires two hands to clap. One sided loves does not work.
I think - to love someone and to be loved by someone, both are special kind of feelings which could be felt deep inside our mind and heart only.
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@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
7 Sep 15
There is nothing worse than loving someone who doesn't love you back. Unrequited affection is one of the worst feelings to go through. It sounds selfish but I want to be loved more - I think my love will flow more freely if it has love meeting it half way.
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@writerjo (2540)
• India
7 Sep 15
@arthurchappell Love can be the only consensus , the hearts which are linked lead to success in love ..Your opinion is very correct
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
16 Aug 15
I do not care for any romance of any kind in any case or instance.
In younger days, I would not bother with anyone not returning love. If they did not, I would leave them cold lolz.
I dont care about love haha
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
26 Sep 15
@writerjo thanks Ebenz yes it is good to be heartless haha kidding lolz
@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
26 Sep 15
@OceanTiara Good for you! I think it's all about what works for the individual :) If you're happy being that way, why not?
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@MeeRoy (19)
• Guwahati, India
16 Aug 15
nice topic to discuss. if I summarize my life in short.. than i have loved people more than i got the love in return and i am very happy about it. because it give immense pleasure when you are able to bring some happiness in others life. a smile of true happiness is priceless.. and i am glad i could do that many times for my close ones.. :)
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@writerjo (2540)
• India
16 Aug 15
@MeeRoy , you can seen the date below the topic ..
Yes at that time I had only three or four followers ..
But now I got few more .. I wanted to suggest this topic today to all my present followers and let them express their thoughts .. I am getting response from them 
.. One of them is You .. Nice and great comment from
you as you quoted the smile of true happiness is priceless is very true ..
Yes at that time I had only three or four followers ..But now I got few more .. I wanted to suggest this topic today to all my present followers and let them express their thoughts .. I am getting response from them .. One of them is You .. Nice and great comment from
you as you quoted the smile of true happiness is priceless is very true .. 2 people like this
@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
26 Sep 15
There's nothing as painful as being in love with someone and them not reciprocating that love. I wouldn't stick around, yet you see so many women putting themselves through so much pain, all in the name of love!
@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
26 Sep 15
For any relationship to work I believe it would need both parties to love and be loved. If the love is unreciprocated it would only make things difficult for both individuals because it's not something that can be forced.
