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Is your husband having any luck with a job? When my grandfather was in his late 80's or 90's he apologized to my mom for how he treated her when she was young. I hope things start going better for you.

Everyone is entitled to feel stressed from time to time, It happens to the best of us. I don't personally know you or know what kind of stresses you might be currently facing but I do hope that you find a solution that helps you zen out... Regarding your Dad's comments, I don't know about you but I don't tell my parents every little detail of my life so there are things that stress me out that they don't know about and I think that's pretty normal. I guess I would personally find it very rude and distasteful though if either of them assumed that I wasn't at least a little stressed in my life. With that said, I hope you find a solution to the things that stress you out and that your parents realize the error of their ways in assuming that your life is just rainbows and sparkly unicorns all day and you have nothing in your life to worry about because we all have those things in our lives that keep us up at night.

You can vent to us and know that we will listen.

I haven't had the opportunity to talk to you in quite a while so I really don't know what kind of stresses that you are going through right now but I do know from those that I've faced in my life in the past couple years that there are a lot of physical ailments that can arise out of stress in your life.

WOW! I laughed in my head-but his comments were not actually funny whatsoever. That in itself is a testimony that you are stressed. When one is in stress, almost all humor falls flat and fails. (This comes from a personal experience). I dont know what is the issue right now, but recalling the past interactions, definitely, there are signs and reasons for you to have some stress, if not more. I can only ask you and pray that you start leading a normal, stress free life... Take care dear friend.

I'm sorry, and you can make a serious post, not all have to be funny or light. I know I have made serious posts in the past...many times.

Oh dear... my daughter, bless her, lives with us, with her two daughters and she can be so abrasive.. things just pop out of her mouth and she responds to things so emotionally.. Her attitude and words hurt - though she has improved immensely actually but still sometimes has her moments still. She doesn't get charged for housing nor babysitting, nor my helping to taxi my 16 year old grand daughter to work this summer.. Except my gas light is on today and I'm broke, so I'll need some gas money tomorrow if I'm to drive.. She has offered gas money kind of offhandedly, but I've yet to see any.. Not that she doesn't mean to not give any, I do know she does.. Hope things continue to improve for you!! (thanks for the opportunity to vent!)

Sorry that your situation is so stressful. I hope that since your hubby got a job that you will be able to move into your own place soon. How are the kids?

Ugh. Sometimes people just don't know how to get out of their meanness - it's as if he has nothing better to say than to just be mean. As always, sorry you are having to go through this. I wish it were as easy as covering your ears and going la la la til you guys are able to get out - I hope you move outta there soon!

I really can't relate with that because ever since my problem are some bits of freckles in my face , but when i use those creams they seem to vanish .

May be he just does not see things as they are. I am still on B

I have a mother who has made remarks like this all my life. I try to let it roll off my back and ignore it. It is easier now she is in her eighties.

I hope your husbands keeps the job and all of you can be together again with a new start.

everyone has stress!! that conversation in and of itself would cause me stress....

it could be.