Your criteria for selecting a discussion topic to respond...

@kiran8 (15348)
Mangalore, India
August 9, 2015 3:05am CST
we see some discussions getting a lot of responses whereas some hardly get any even through the topic is good. So what would be the criteria for selecting discussions/topics and add a response 1, Is it because it is easy to respond to since it is something that interests you 2,Is it from a friend who you feel obliged to respond to 3,Is it from someone who has responded to your own discussions\4, Is it all of the above three? Please share your views...
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@tammyr (5946)
• Etowah, Tennessee
9 Aug 15
I usually check out my friends discussions first and answer what interests me. Then ones with no responses that interest me. If I have time (lol) I might search a tag that interests me., but so far that only brought up discussions that were years old. A tip... Adding tags on your discussion helps get it seen. I often just pick a person that had responded on my discussion and go to their page and see what they have posted n responded to, visiting ones that interests me from there....which is how I got here btw. **waves @allknowing **
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@tammyr (5946)
• Etowah, Tennessee
9 Aug 15
@allknowing why yes, yes I am.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
9 Aug 15
Hi tammyr, I do the same although I may not respond if the discussion is not really interesting...I wouldnt mind responding to discussions that are years old, I used to that even before and sometimes you come across some really good discussions..
@allknowing (135348)
• India
9 Aug 15
Stalkihng me right?
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@allknowing (135348)
• India
9 Aug 15
I have those tabs open - 'Me', 'People' and 'Explore' I respond if I can irrespective of who has posted them.I keep refreshing those tabs. I suggest that you just participate and automatically you will see your topics getting responses and comments. I post articles as and when ideas crop up. Some get good responses and some don't. That's how it is here.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
9 Aug 15
Definitely, the more you are visible he more responses you get...I respond to any discussion regardless of who started it as long as it interests me.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
9 Aug 15
@allknowing I have been on this site for 7 years now and have a fair share of followers already and am happy with that, but am open to anyone who wants to be friends with me
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@allknowing (135348)
• India
9 Aug 15
@kiran8 You can also increase your followers/following number.
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@GardenGerty (160491)
• United States
9 Aug 15
This morning I am going down the "Explore" list and responding to most of them. I try to respond to people who may be online right now.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
9 Aug 15
Hi, i am doing the same , go to explore list and then to other lists like recent discussions and so on..
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@mayka123 (16605)
• India
9 Aug 15
Today is my first day on the all new mylot. I am just opening every discussion I see and responding irrespective of who has posted it. Earlier too I would respond to every discussion that I liked. The discussion has just to come my way.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
9 Aug 15
IHi mayka, it was the same with all of us when we joined here and there are enough discussions to respond to...But again it is only those that you llike and identify with, that you feel like responding because you would have something to add to the discussion ...
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
9 Aug 15
With whatever happened with the first version, I have learned to control me. I now, dont normally make responses to strangers unless - I find the topic interesting - until now, I think I have responded to only 2 or 3 discussions from complete strangers. I somehow dont want to suffer the loss of friends now. Once was enough. I am having difficulties in locating the discussions from the people who were on my friends list - because the "friends" are now replaced with "followers" and "following" and on top of that, there are only 10 or 15 people who get repeated on those lists. Weird but it will take a while to get accustomed.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
10 Aug 15
Hi sid, I too am trying to get used to the new format and what you say makes sense, until you feel comfortable with the site, one needs to be cautious. I looked for a list of my old friends , then realised that it has been replaced and I notice the pay structure to has changed...
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
10 Aug 15
If a discussion is of interest to me, and I can make a contribution, then I will respond or comment back. It isn't necessarily a discussion that any of my friends have started, as I will read lots of discussions from My friends, and others as well, if I can't contribute, then I just move on to another discussion, or I will start my own. It just all depends. I just sit back, read, and respond or comment. Take care and have fun.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
10 Aug 15
@rosekiss Of course, I do read many of them irrespective of what content or who posts them. However, I refrain from responding - even if I can add to it - specially in scenarios where the op or the one whom I can add value to, is a newbie. I had bitter experiences in the past when people mis-understood or went on blabbering without knowing much of what they wrote. I can do that even today, however, it is just that I am in no mood at the moment and also I am two years older now
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
9 Aug 15
Those things that interests me are easier to respond to. But of course we have other considerations like you mentioned here. those things should also be given priority.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
9 Aug 15
Yes true...when you are on a discussion site and are interacting with other friends and members you need to share ,,,you respond to theirs and they respond to yours and some you want to because the topic is interesting..
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@pumpkinjam (8754)
• United Kingdom
9 Aug 15
If it's a title which interests me, and I feel that I can contribute to it then I will do so. I chose this one because it was in my feed thingy and it's a straight forward question to which I have an answer. I won't respond to a discussion for the sake of responding, no matter who posts it.
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• United Kingdom
10 Aug 15
@kiran8 I do try to look for discussions from my friends but I don't feel obliged to respond to them just because they're friends. I will respond if they're interesting and if I think I can make a worthwhile contribution.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
10 Aug 15
Hi, I can understand that...I too go by the title , but do make it a point to look for discussions started by my friends and some members who come up with interesting though everyday topics ..
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
10 Aug 15
As long as I have the time to respond, I'll reply to a discussion topic regardless if it is of interest or not or if it was started by a friend or not.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
10 Aug 15
Hi allen, by doing that you also save time on searching for posts belonging to any of those categories...many of us can afford to spend only a limited time here , so guess we have to make the most of it...
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
9 Aug 15
I often respond to recent discussions. I also like to read and respond to discussions with no responses and discussions created by new members. I look for topics that interest me, and topics that I am able to comment on. Sometimes I read discussions without responding. Some discussions are interesting, but I don't really have anything to say about the topic.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
10 Aug 15
I do the same, make it a point to respond to new comers and no response ones ...There are far too many discussions and of course one cannot respond to all since we have to do the best in the limited time we get to spend here ..
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
10 Aug 15
For me , it's the posts that interests me and i can relate with .
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
10 Aug 15
Hi, welcome back ...it is more or less the same to me, interesting posts that I can relate to ...
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
9 Aug 15
I was curious too so I started a discussion seeking suggestions from friends. Mine was in reference to some discussion posts which were obviously nothing short of spam. Remember you also posted a comment on 'Youtube or myLot' and the ones who posted their comments were answered with copy pasted comments. Such discussions should be in funny category and that's where they deserve to be. Cheers
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
9 Aug 15
Sunil, I thought mylot would filter out the spam posts...I wish members would post their own comments rather than copy/paste ..They should not be in funny category but in dustbin especially if there are spam posts
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
9 Aug 15
@kiran8 I have reported such posts and all such posts have disappeared overnight.
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@Lolaze (5093)
• St. Louis, Missouri
9 Aug 15
I have to be interested in the topic and what is written has to make sense. Also, if I have someone who is constantly suggesting every post they write - I will make a point NOT to read or respond to their posts because that is my pet peeve. I do check the new users tab and try to comment on new users posts regardless of the above though to try and make them feel welcomed, especially since I'm new myself.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
10 Aug 15
Hi Lola Ze, I too get some suggestions which I do look into if it is by a friend , unless they tell us there is no way of knowing.. I too make it a point to respond to at least a few discussions started by new users and also the ones that have had no response !
@phoonk (341)
• India
10 Aug 15
Option 1 without a doubt What about you? @kiran8
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
10 Aug 15
Hi Abhni, most of the time it is option one but it could be other options as well...I respond to those discussions that have had no responses and started by new members ..
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@phoonk (341)
• India
10 Aug 15
@kiran8 Oh me too. I too comment on discussions of new members.
@jstory07 (139354)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Aug 15
I will respomd to all the discussions that I can find i am still figuring this site out.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
10 Aug 15
Hi Judy, welcome to the site, am sure you will get used to the site within a week,in fact, even for us old members the format is new and most of us trying to figure out things ...all the best
@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
9 Aug 15
The things which interest me, I am more likely to respond to that.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
10 Aug 15
Yes Deepak, I do the same, some interesting topics make you respond to them regardless of who started it ..
@writerjo (2540)
• India
9 Aug 15
All the above three .. I also select the No Response Discussion and also new comer's . I Read it and respond it ..
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
9 Aug 15
Hi Joshbenz, I too do the same make it a point to respond to at least 2 or three discussions with no responses and also ones started by newcomers and of course the ones started by friends and the ones that interest me, a long list ...
@Ahedres (23)
• Philippines
9 Aug 15
I firstly visit the most recent discussions and respond to those topics that I can relate to. So for me, it's more of number 1, but I also use number 2 and 3.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
9 Aug 15
I can understand that, we normally look at the easiest option that is also to our liking...But I make it a point normally to respond to those who have a discussion of their ...
@iamshane487 (1139)
• Manila, Philippines
9 Aug 15
It is because it's easy to respond and it interests me. I admit that I am sometimes procrastinated to read long posts so I opt sometimes the short posts that also interest me.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
9 Aug 15
Hi Shane, Yes I guess many members would feel that way, a short title and a short post is much more attractive unless it is something we can easily identify with
@marlina (154131)
• Canada
9 Nov 15
If the topic is of interest to me, yes, I would read the discussion and comment on it.