Exhausted Helping Relatives?
By cherigucchi
@cherigucchi (14876)
Philippines
August 11, 2015 9:20pm CST
Have you ever felt exhausted helping relatives or friends? Sounds like not a good attitude. But do not judge yet unless you hear every sides of the story.
It feels good to share your blessings especially if you do really have a lot. There is a joy in helping people especially if they are your own blood. But what if the scenario seems to be a cycle and they become too dependent on you? And when you said no for the first time, you are the most evil person in the world as if you had never helped them at all.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
13 Aug 15
We must have limit in helping them especially if its not doing them any good
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
13 Aug 15
@cherigucchi Yes . Because if we don't they will abuse our generosity .
@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
13 Aug 15
@SIMPLYD Exactly. Sometimes they just do not know when to stop asking for help and this becomes their only way to survive.
@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
13 Aug 15
I agree. Sometimes they become too demanding because they get used to asking for help from you
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@ThankyouLord (698)
• St. Petersburg, Florida
23 Dec 15
Sometimes the kindest thing we can do is teach them how to do this for themselves. Is it about money? Help them get a job. Is it transportation? Get the bus schedule for them and the number for a taxi. If it is other stuff, bring whatever they need to help themselves. Tell them you will support them in finding what they need.
