marriage

San Bernardino, California
August 16, 2015 9:54am CST
People say the first year of marriage is hard right? But why is that if you been with someone so long before marriage. Now then relationship changes there is no love or support they look at you different why is that ? Iv been with my husband for 8 year married for 6months and we already falling down.
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@jstory07 (139965)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Aug 15
My husbvand and I loved each other from the first minute we saw each other. We still love each other very much. After children,grandchildren and great grandchildren.l
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• Moradabad, India
17 Aug 15
You both are blessed. Thanks.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
16 Aug 15
Hello and welcome to mylot. In your case if you were with your hubby for 8 years then you should not face any problems in first year of your marriage. Here in India, where many go for arranged marriages (where the guy and girl do not each other before marriage), they could face some problems in adjusting with year other when they are new. However, gradually, things settle down if both are willing to adjust.
• San Bernardino, California
16 Aug 15
Hello and thank you. I believed the samething every since we got married it seem like I change or maybe because I was diagnosed with cancer that might of change some things in are relationship. But I still feel that something may be wrong on the mans part right? Who don't want to adjust it.
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• Moradabad, India
17 Aug 15
Marriage is the name of responsibility not the enjoyment. Thanks.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
17 Aug 15
@sunilmishra7756 - Sunilji I hope you are aware that mylot has been revamped and it will pay you now for your post (in near future). You were a regular here when there were no earning bonus. I hope to see you more here.
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• Moradabad, India
17 Aug 15
Marriage is a cage in which two persons enter willingly but remain unwilling through out the life. Thanks.