CHILDREN, Heaven Sent OR Problem

depends on how you handle your kids. treat them as treasures and make them feel they are loved.

I believe that the challenged ones are closest to God, so definitely Heaven Sent! All babies are born pure and innocent, which makes them more beautiful than any problems we might come across in raising them. Remember, it's a learning process for you and them to share. Try to see those problems as another chance to learn and grow, rather than an obstacle. If you are religious or not, and in any variation, this prayer is well said and helpful during times of stress: This has often been attributted to others, including St. Francis of Assisi but without sources. Though similar prayers may have existed, the work seems to be Niebuhr's. He never copyrighted the prayer and it has been used in many variants. One of the most famous variants: God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. Niebuhr's preferred form as declared by his widow: God, give us grace to accept with serenity the things that cannot be changed, courage to change the things which should be changed, and the wisdom to distinguish the one from the other. Full version of the original (c.1942): God, give us grace to accept with serenity the things that cannot be changed, courage to change the things which should be changed, and the wisdom to distinguish the one from the other. Living one day at a time, Enjoying one moment at a time, Accepting hardship as a pathway to peace, Taking, as Jesus did, This sinful world as it is, Not as I would have it, Trusting that You will make all things right, If I surrender to Your will, So that I may be reasonably happy in this life, And supremely happy with You forever in the next. Amen. Retrieved from "http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Reinhold_Niebuhr"

All children are a gift from God. Our job is to raise the to the best of our ability. Being a parent is challenging no doubt. Try to stay calm with them, let them know there are consequences for their behavior and be consistant in their punishment. If they have problems you feel you can't handle, by all means seek help for them. Raising a child is the most important job a person can have.

Have you kept space (2 to 3 years) between each child? If so, it should not be problem. Problem lies in method of handling them, treating them, educating them -- all these contribute in bringing them up properly. Just see where is that missing link and try to organize yourself to bring them up properly.

My daughter is very hard but she is and wil always be my angel..

I know..I don't have one yet but I can see it to my nephew and nieces, but I think they are heaven sent if you will discipline them in the early age...If you ignore it, they will be your problem esp when they grew up. Watch Supernanny (series)...

Definely gifts from heaven! Sometimes they come by suprise when you are out of control and need to calm down and sometimes a wished for gift. But not one you should give back.

children are the most sweetest lovable ones in this world

heaven sent of course!!