a lesson learned about LOVE

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To be in love you have to fight to have the upper hand. Being in love is like being in a battle. It can also be like a gambling. You have to prepare yourself for the unexpected. You have to be prepared for the worst. You can never be too confident that things will always happen according to your will and wishes. You have to guard your heart well. To be in love you have to take a lot of courage. Five seconds of courage can change everything. You must learn to take chances. Who knows, in that five second maybe you’ll be able to know what he really feels. You have to hear him out. Things may change for better or maybe for worst. If the thing turns out good then you’re damn lucky but if things turn into something that can turn your sunny day into a stormy day all at once, stay still. Smile and walk away in silence. Knowing the sad truth is still better that to have lots of wild guesses running endlessly on your mind. Thinking too much is very tiring. Better know the fact rather that expecting for something that may never come. A fine weather can suddenly turn into dark and stormy day so always be prepared. You have to be ready because you’ll never know what the next day might bring. He may be walking happily with you today but he might just fade away tomorrow in just a snap. Without farewells and goodbyes, you may suddenly see yourself walking all alone in the rain with a heavy heart. No shelters to keep you safe and no blankets to keep you warm. You’ll find yourself all alone in the middle of nowhere. Do not be afraid to cry. Even the toughest fighter can feel pain. Yes, there’s nothing wrong of falling down. Cry with all your heart until you run out of tears. You vision may seem shuttered but you’ll definitely be able to see the light again. There will be times that you may just break down and cry over and over again because of the same reason. Feel the pain until it makes you numb enough to be able to stand up again as if everything is alright. Move on and walk away for something better waits. Don’t mind those people who point their fingers at you. They know nothing and they will never know your pain unless they will be on your shoes. Never let their words ruin you. You know yourself well far better than them. They never saw your tears, never seen the wounded warrior inside you. All they can see are the things that they want to see and all they can hear are the things that they wanted to hear. Be strong and stand tall no matter how hard things gets. Walk straight no matter how narrow your path goes.