Comments which leave you confused

By sofs
@sofssu (23662)
August 29, 2015 12:10am CST
I write articles on other sites and on my blog/site. I love to have comments on my page. However, some comments have me flummoxed. I wonder if the person was commenting on the same thing I had written or if he/she had read it at all. The worst part is I don't know how to respond to such a comment. I am always left scratching my head and end up saying some thing inane and thank you in response to such a comment. I have on a couple of occasions deleted such comments.. not because it was bad.. but because it had nothing at all to do with the article itself. I am not talking about spammy comments here.. I am talking real comments. Have you ever felt this way? How do you handle them?
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
29 Aug 15
Reply, "are you sure you're responding to the correct discussion"? Or "did you actually read what I wrote'?
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@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
@dawnald That what I think to say but its real hard for me to respond like that.
@Ishani08 (563)
• India
29 Aug 15
"i did read your article. :p" Yes, we do encounter such situations where we don't know how to respond to the comment and at the same time don't want to appear rude but stupidity is the answer of stupidity.. I mean , " if you can't convince them ,then confuse them" ;p Simple mantra I follow.!!!! :) And I will have to admit that sometimes even I am into such stupidity of absurd commenting.. trying hard to improve though.. :p
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@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
@Ishani08 Okay you have managed to get me really confused there.. Maybe I should try confusing people.. who are already confused. and get them confused enough to confuse others some more.. Are you confused now?
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
29 Aug 15
I never bother answering #comments that are irrelevant to the posts.
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@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
@marlina LOL now that is the easier way out. It helps greatly I guess.
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@flpoolbum (2978)
• United States
29 Aug 15
I don't know, I think blue could also be described as a cheerful color. JUST KIDDING! I really don't know why people write things unrelated to our topics. If people do that when responding to my posts, I usually just let it go.
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@flpoolbum (2978)
• United States
2 Sep 15
@sofssu Maybe, some people just weren't around the day the brains were passed out.
@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
@flpoolbum Let go.. yup . but you are left wondering what on earth made the person comment so stupidly.
@sofssu (23662)
2 Sep 15
@flpoolbum Maybe quite a possibility.
@much2say (55901)
• Los Angeles, California
29 Aug 15
Sometimes I will get those bizarre comments. If I am in the mood, I'm game - I will ask them a question about their comment just to see what they say - but in most cases they don't respond again. This makes me think these people are there to make their fly-by comments - I doubt they read the post (perhaps only the title or some key words - you can tell). If it's too out there, then I just let it be - there's nothing more to say about it.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
29 Aug 15
My evil twin was thinking of leaving this discussion an incomprehensible comment, but I just couldn't think of one.
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@much2say (55901)
• Los Angeles, California
29 Aug 15
@dawnald Upon thinking about it, I couldn't think of one either! It's harder than I thought! Or maybe we're just not supposed to "think" when we do it!
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
29 Aug 15
The summer is almost over it seems unless of course you live in the southern hemisphere.
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@allknowing (137553)
• India
30 Aug 15
Many do not read long posts and rush to comment carelessly. I always write short posts and therefore have not come across such a situation.
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@allknowing (137553)
• India
31 Aug 15
@sofssu I agree with you.. But let me tell you no one has the time to read through posts that are long and therefore it is better that they do not comment rather than put irrelevent comments
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@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
@allknowing You can do that here.. but not really on serious blogs or on article writing sites where they have a requirement of 400+ words..
@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
@allknowing I wouldn't say that when we are referencing articles or reading up material for our personal interests we do read long articles. At least I do. However as you say its better not to comment at all if you are confused or did not read it fully.
@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
29 Aug 15
Oh gosh yes, I come across them all the time. It often leaves me wondering if the person is well. I remember I even asked this same question on one of the sites I "work" on because on that particular day it was THAT bad. In the beginning I'd ask for them to clarify, but now I just skip along to the next comment. It's just weird LOL
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@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
30 Aug 15
@tobirush Or alternatively, if you don't like or have anything to say about the subject matter, just skip onto the next one! But then some people are really only about racking up points as fast as they can to make money! It's a very bad habit.
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@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
@Lushlala My thoughts too.. Its very tempting to ask.. are you okay? But then you can't always say what you think.
• Abuja, Nigeria
30 Aug 15
we all need to try to read a post before commenting
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
29 Aug 15
There are many ways of seeing meaning in things. Trees, flowers and clouds all have a hidden meaning. Even things which do not make sense at first can become clear with hindsight.
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@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
@owlwings As I said in an earlier comment II could understand differences of perspective while responding to creative writing.. I write about living, lifestyle and psychology. in simple terms on that site
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
31 Aug 15
@sofssu Like @dawnald's Evil Twin, I was actually desperately trying to write an obscure comment! It came out with more meaning than I intended. However, it did take you a while to come up with a reply!
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@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
29 Aug 15
I have had this happen, but generally it is spam. Now and again it is a real reader who is making a completely irrelevant comment. I try to find out more about it, why did they say what they said, but sometimes they won't clarify and it remains a mystery. I usually decide that one of the other of us is insane and leave it at that.
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@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
@Rollo1 It does occur to me that either one of us has to be insane its like they have tree or four tabs open and their multitasking effort went terribly wrong..
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
30 Aug 15
I once commented on a post where a woman shared her relationship problems, and my comment was a description of the some of the islands in my country. Oops, wrong post I couldn't delete my comment and I wonder what she thought when she read it Sometimes I also receive strange comments that aren't related to my topic at all. I guess that some of them are mistakes like my own, but not all of them. Sometimes the person probably misunderstood the topic or the topic reminded them of something that don't make most sense (to me). My response is usually "I don't really understand what you mean, could you please explain" or something like that.
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@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
@Porcospino I think that's what happes when you multitask too much I woder what that poor woman thought of your comment.. she could have thought you were suggesting her a vacation to those islands. I do say "I don't really understand what you mean, could you please explain' ofte times.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
29 Aug 15
LOL, many a times this happens with me and I simply thank the person for having taken the time and made the effort to leave a comment...
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
31 Aug 15
@sofssu LOL...I guess at times you do get irritated
@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
@kiran8 You are too sweet.. thanking is the last thing on my mind.
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@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 15
Well, since noone leave comment in my blog, I don't get disturb It must be wasting your time to getrid of them
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@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
@ifa225 Thankfully I don't get too many of those kinds.. So I am okay with that.
@inkyuboz (1392)
• Mandaluyong City, Philippines
29 Aug 15
I just leave the absurd, mundane comments alone. I really don't know how to respond to something that's not related to what I've written. Eh.
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@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
@inkyuboz Yeah.. seriously .. that is the best way to handle such comments.. leave them alone.. or you may lose your sanity.
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• Williamsburg, Virginia
29 Aug 15
Sometimes I have had such comments. I also am confused as to what to say. Sometimes I wonder if I misread a post because sometimes my response doesn't get responded to. I feel kind of embarrassed.
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@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
@taramarie39 That could happen with poetry or creative writing .. when you see things fro your perspective while the writer had a totally different perspective while writing the stuff he/she wrote.
• New Delhi, India
29 Aug 15
Yes, I have also been in such dubious state and failed to decide how to reply but somehow managed.
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@sofssu (23662)
31 Aug 15
@Shampasaid I understand what you mean. Sometimes responding to these comments take longer than responding to serious comments on the subject.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
31 Aug 15
I can relate . When that happens i also just thank the person .