Do You Think Kiss Your Kids on Lips is Pervert & Sexually?

We completely agree with you @SIMPLYD , it's not pervert at all

@redvakaurvaki It is unhealthy for a toddler when the saliva of an adult touches their lips.

@allknowing Oh well, no, I don't mean to go that far, kissing lips on baby and children are only seconds on their lips. I don't mean saliva will touch them to distribute germ or virus. Of course it's important to maintain their health. Adult also need to make restriction to keep distance when they feel not well

Kissing our kids on certain age -in toddler age- could be considered too I guess

We all, as parent, will use our instinct to recognize the limitation on our kids which allow to do and which one not allowed. I think we should not too worry about that kissing expression

True @ifa225. It's just about love, no sexually harrasment. Parent know this and they will stop at certain age of their children

@redvakaurvaki I don't kiss my son in his lips, only a second perhaps in his cheeks. He is 14 yo now But to my 9 yo daughter, sometimes I kiss her in her lips

@ifa225 I don't know that your son is almost teenager, sist. Of course on that age, we don't kiss him on lips. Especially, usually young teenager will shy to get kiss from their parent.

@redvakaurvaki ..it is also very well to presume that the child will understand the difference between our folks and others. My neighbor's kid is three and a half years old, and he still considers me to be part of his family though we don't dine together or even visit each other that much. See what I mean? Of course, I am fond of kids, so it may be the reason that they take it easily to me. But that age is enough for anybody to hurt him. Yesterday, lift was not working and his grandma was not able to climb down the stairs to go and pick the child. The school bus arrived, and they gave the child to me. While the task was over, it disturbed me. They shouldn't be giving the child without prior intimation, even if the child knows the person. And at times, one of the parents can also be from that 10 percent, right? We never know until it is too late. :( And the child may take longer to understand the difference. If mama does it, what is wrong if uncle does is, or aunty does it? Development speed varies from child to child. I don't say it is wrong - or the intentions are wrong. I merely feel the child's safety is jeopardized if we get carried away with our feelings to display our overwhelming love. At times, we may unwittingly be putting another child at risk, because he or she may feel if ABC's mother is doing it, and nobody is objecting then it is ok if xyz who is not my parent kisses me that way.

by instinct, I think parent could show it indirectly that kissing between parents and kids only do for an affection and couldn't do with non-family member. It's hard to explain but I guess at certain point children will understand by nature that it should not doing with anyone else -as they understand the feeling on their parent is different with feeling to others. Instead, parent should give the early education about this. As long as it's under control and parent know the limitation, I think it shouldn't be problem. Yes, I'm aware about germs and virus, so I notice this as warning and I will be careful with this

As children grow, parent will stop kissing them on lips and they will only kiss on forehead or cheek. Perhaps every parent with different culture will have various opinion on this matter

@redvakaurvaki I am sure that different cultures have different habits.

@LadyDuck True, we are bordered by culture and habit. The important thing, we should know which one is better to raise our children