how to choose between career and family..

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its so hard..real hard..im iun that sitiation right now.. you see, i want to have a career..a job.. but what would be the effect?my family will suffer..why?first, no enough time spent with their mother..no enough quality time.. you'd be out like working hours a day and a nanny's discipline is different from a mother..coz mother knows best..the time when they will need you when you're not around..the time wasted spending it with others except to your children.. yes you may have money for your kids but money is only for material needs..yah maybe for their future..but actually,money is more for material needs... i mean,imagine spending all your life working for a company and imagine yourself spending quality time with your family..which is better? i know there are diadvantages and advantages to both but it breaks my heart thinking that i wasted so many times not with my family..and actually, if i stay at home and watch my kids and do my job as a mother,even if my husband has a job lets just sa enough for everyday living, still my heart aches everytime i think that i cant give enough to my kids... why these things are so complicated to me? coz nothing matters to me than to show my family how much i love them..and its spending sharing,lovng, caring them in special ways you know how..