Structured or Spontaneous

@simone10 (54187)
Louisville, Kentucky
September 6, 2015 8:28am CST
What kind of person are you? Do you prefer being more structured and have a schedule or do you prefer being spontaneous and fly by the seat of your pants? As for me, I have always preferred being on a schedule of some type. It always worked well when I was working and now that I no longer work, I am still on some kind of schedule at home. I feel more comfortable and kind of in control when I know what I need to do and when I'm going to do it. Whenever something happens that is out of my control, it does cause a little anxiety for me. Even though I am not a control freak, I do like being in control. Kind of contradictory isn't it? What about you?
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
6 Sep 15
I am pretty much spontaneous. I live alone, and theefore I am not accountable to anyone but myself, so I just do things as i think of them. Each day is different, that is for sure.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
7 Sep 15
@simone10 Well, living alone was not my idea, as my husband asked for a divorce. I was upset about it at first, but now that i have been alone for eight years, it isn't bad at all, except for when I need things fixed, then I wish I had someone here to fix them.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
9 Sep 15
@rosekiss I can understand. I have been divorced for over 23 years and I am happy being alone. Well, I'm actually living with my brother so not completely alone.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
7 Sep 15
I wish I was more that way.
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@GardenGerty (160978)
• United States
6 Sep 15
I am very much like you. I need structure. I need to make plans. Hubby is scattered. I get anxious.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
7 Sep 15
I have always been this way. My brother is little more spontaneous but when it comes to holidays, he likes it all to be structured and all planned out.
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@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
7 Sep 15
I do like having some structure and some routine, but there are some days when I do enjoy doing some things spontaneously. I do enjoy a bit of both.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
7 Sep 15
dodo19 I'm with you as I like some structure but I also like spontaneously also.
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@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
8 Sep 15
@Marcyaz it's nice to have some mix.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
7 Sep 15
I wish I could be that way as it would be the best of both worlds.
@sofssu (23662)
7 Sep 15
I am more of a structured person. I have to do lists and follow them.. but I am not too stuck on to them.. I sometimes go with my mood. However, By the end of the day I would have done most of the stuff on my to do list.
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@sofssu (23662)
7 Sep 15
@simone10 I don't always complete all but I am okay.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
7 Sep 15
I also have to do lists and usually complete it by the end of the day.
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
6 Sep 15
I am structured. I need to make plans and lists and stick on them. I do not stress if I cannot complete everything as I had planned, but I prefer to have a routine.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
7 Sep 15
I feel that way too. I do have to admit that I do get a little anxious if things don't go the way I had planned but I can quickly talk myself out of it.
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
7 Sep 15
A little bit of both, actually. I'm structured in some things, like when it comes to work, budget planning, or planning a trip somewhere. In other things I can be pretty spontaneous.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
7 Sep 15
I think that being a little of both is a good thing.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
9 Sep 15
@cahaya1983 Lol...I completely understand.
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
8 Sep 15
@simone10 Yep! Actually I'm a spontaneous person by nature but a structured/organized person by nurture.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
7 Sep 15
I like structure to a certain point but then like yesterday I had nothing planned and was asked if I wanted to go to some large tent and yard sales in another State as they would be the last ones before winter sets in. Since I had nothing planned and was up and dressed I was told to be ready in 10 minutes and I was and away we went. I found 2 magazines that I paid a total of 50 cents for, a large stuffed animal for my dogs for 50 cents also and a dream catcher for my bedroom for $2. Yeah I am the last of the big spenders....
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
9 Sep 15
I don't mind last minute plans too much, especially when it comes to my kids and grandkids. I won't say that I don't get a little anxious but I quickly talk my way around it in my head.
@rebelann (112983)
• El Paso, Texas
7 Sep 15
I've always been a flyer, except when I had to be at work at a specific time and I never liked that. Bein retired allows me to fly as much as I want, YaY that really makes all my days.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
9 Sep 15
Being retired really does give you the freedom to do what you want, when you want.
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• United States
6 Sep 15
Definitely structured. There is another side of me however that is open for all, but that is usually just a dream world. Reality is I like the same everyday.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
7 Sep 15
There are times when I wish I was more spontaneous but I always think of the consequences which usually keeps me from being that way.
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@rjsezack (36)
• Ft. Worth, Texas
10 Sep 15
Spontanous, I may set out with a set of plans, but almost evertime I have to change in the middle. But, I do make some sort of plan then move as it comes.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
14 Sep 15
I like being around spontaneous people. They are usually so much fun.
@Butchcass4 (5895)
• United States
7 Sep 15
I guess I would have to say I am a little of both. I like to know what I have to do by writing out a to-o list, yet at times I do things out of the blue, and put my to-do list aside.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
7 Sep 15
I think it's probably best to be a little of both.
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@GreatMartin (23671)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
7 Sep 15
I am half one half the other! I always have a list of things to do and I go to the movies EVERY Friday and I do my grocery shopping EVERY Thursday BUT then there is Saturday through Wednesday
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
7 Sep 15
I agree, you are a little of both. I would love to be that way.
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@Tydiakat (43)
• United States
6 Sep 15
The is more or less a schedule in my house. Especially for the baby, we worked one out eventually lol.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
7 Sep 15
I can definitely understand why you have to be more structured with a baby.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
9 Sep 15
@Tydiakat I remember those days
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• United States
7 Sep 15
@simone10 yeah lol. there are some days where i just let things work out on its own lol
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• United States
8 Sep 15
i'm a fly by the seat 'f my britches kinda gal. reckon that comes from raisin' cattle 'n trainin' horses. ya kinda get an idea what needs to be done when the sun rises the next day, but those critters sometimes think otherwise. i gave up bein' in control when i left corporate america 'n so glad i did.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
10 Sep 15
@crazyhorseladycx Thank you! You are so sweet! I try and visit with people like I do in real life and it's so much easier to be myself online. I wonder why that is?
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
9 Sep 15
Hey lady! Good to see you on here! I wish I was a little more spontaneous. Sometimes I feel like I am a stuffed shirt...lol.
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• United States
9 Sep 15
@simone10 aw, ya aint no schtuffed shirt, my friend! if'n it helps, visit with folks like ya do yer friends'n real life or yer pups
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@Tampa_girl7 (50524)
• United States
6 Sep 15
I think that I am a bit of both. Sometimes I schedule things and other times do it at the spur of the moment.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
7 Sep 15
I rarely ever do anything on the spur of the moment but have always wished I was more that way.