I Will Follow You..Follow you till the end of Time..
By Rosekitty
@Rosekitty (19368)
San Marcos, Texas
September 6, 2015 1:38pm CST
Been Over a Month Now and i have many who are following me to never be seen again plus many newbies who came over from a B place.
What i'd like to know is just why do you follow a person?..I know why i do and it is because i feel a connection to them and they faithfully come back to my discussions.
Whether we just talk, goof off or i help them.
I am the type that suggests my discussions to my followers..so far only 3 have told me they don't like to be suggested to..
How do you feel about that?....Do you like it or not?..if not i will not suggest to you anymore..and yes i keep notes of this!
I just wish i could delete the ones who follow me and you never hear from..period!
So That follow you till the end of time might be ending soon!
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37 responses
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
6 Sep 15
I cannot get enough of suggestions Rose.
I follow a lot of people because..just because haha
And for those who do not like suggestions, I think it is so easy just to delete them
I dont quite get what is so hard about that.
I do not get enough discussions suggested, so then I go to explore to find some.
Like the song says though in Easy Rider..I wasnt born to follow hahah
And for those who do not like suggestions, I think it is so easy just to delete them I dont quite get what is so hard about that.
I do not get enough discussions suggested, so then I go to explore to find some.
Like the song says though in Easy Rider..I wasnt born to follow hahah9 people like this
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Sep 15
@TiarasOceanView..you hun are Always and i mean Always here..maybe even the 1st one and i haven't even suggested this discussion yet..hahah
I thank you every time i see your name cause i know you will be back and if you stopped i would wonder if you were sick..so don;t scare me ever!
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
6 Sep 15
@Rosekitty I am often sick Rose and usually is why I wouldnt be here if you dont see me. I try to check in often in between my extremely busy schedule haha NOT
I love you too Rose.
I love you too Rose.6 people like this
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
6 Sep 15
I personally am not sure if I like all the 'suggestions' or not. Maybe one or two from the same person a day but I like to spread the wealth.
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
6 Sep 15
I like to follow those in which can capture my attention, share the same things I might be interested in, and hopefully able to share a few laughs with.
I have also followed all those that followed me, because I believe in fair play. However, over half of those don't even interact with me. I have yet to get 1 like, a comment, anything. So I started cleaning my 'following' list last night. And will continue to do so.
As far as you suggestion your discussions to me, I don't mind at all. For it has never been one sided. The ones that are one sided, I don't even bother reading them, I just hit 'delete'.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Sep 15
@TexanTornado I might just go to people instead of discussions
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@TexanTornado (5573)
• United States
6 Sep 15
@Rosekitty Well, of course. I always enjoy interacting with you.
Yes, I noticed their names are still there, but when I go to people I don't see them if they have responded to something. So it will making going through the 'people tab' a lot easier (for me).
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@GardenGerty (160491)
• United States
6 Sep 15
At first I did not like suggestions, but I now see how easily they fit what I am doing right now. I get to interact with people who are active on the site.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Sep 15
@GardenGerty..yes i agree it is so easy now not having to hunt for discussions when they come to you!
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
6 Sep 15
I follow others, so that i can have more friends, not to mention, I have more discussions to respond to, that I might have misse. Also, when I go to my followers discussions, they will in turn go to my discussions. That is also how we help each other too. I am thankful for all the followers I do have.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Sep 15
@rosekiss...I appreciate your answer because that is a truthful one.
We need to interact more with our followers to help each other and maybe in the time acquire a new friend!
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
6 Sep 15
@Rosekitty You are so right, and that is what mylot wants us to do, and I am glad as the interaction is the best thing. I am having so much fun interacting.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
6 Sep 15
Ok.
Why do I follow a person - I like his/her discussions if no discussions are started by him/her, I will still follow if we had a good ineraction - maybe light, maybe on serious issues. The vibes must match and I should feel we are on at least similar wavelengths.
.so far only 3 have told me they don't like to be suggested to..
For everyone else - I am not on that list
.if not i will not suggest to you
Suggest me or not, if I appear on MyLot and you have a discussion, 99.9% chances, I will be around. I love being on your discussions
[off the record - also because, I stay in that cupboard next to your kitchen where I can always find some spare brownies, cakes and chocos].
Now, if you can, let me know who has been hurting you.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
7 Sep 15
@Rosekitty
Sid, just don't let her put you on the left over section, then you will really be in trouble.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Sep 15
@thesids..I love having you hang out in my cupboard where i can feed you like a pet!!..You will be spoiled
Glad you will always follow me!
..You will be spoiled
Glad you will always follow me!4 people like this
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
6 Sep 15
That's the why it works at any of these sites. It is not uncommon. That's one reason I try to be picky as to who I 'friend' 'follow' whatever term!
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Sep 15
@AbbyGreenhill..but what abou the ones who follow you and then never do anything?..those are my concern now..
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
9 Sep 15
@savak03 well as many discussions i've made since we all have been back and still nothing, i presume they are ignoring me or are deleting mine..so guess what i did today?
@savak03 (6684)
• United States
9 Sep 15
@Rosekitty Why be concerned about them if they never do anything? They can just sit on the bench and earn nothing. Plus they will miss out on the great conversations and the friendships we have made. Go ahead and keep suggesting to them too. They can't hurt you even if they get tired of seeing your suggestions. Maybe you will come up with a subject that will inspire them to start participating. Who knows?
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
7 Sep 15
@sacmom..I agree and sure hope i haven't missed any of yours..
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
6 Sep 15
It is different for people. Myself - because of my part time jobs and then family and not-so-god-health - I jut do not get the time to follow everyone and some days I am not here at all.Just can't cut it
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Sep 15
@cynthiann..but when you are here you always show you care that is what i like!!
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
6 Sep 15
that's my problem exactly except for the job part. lol
except for the job part. lol2 people like this
@MakingCents (743)
•
7 Sep 15
I will follow you.... follow you wherever you may go...
I tend to follow people if I read a few of their discussions and find them enjoyable.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
7 Sep 15
@Makingcents..yes but we have been friends here for many years so i sure hope you do
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@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
6 Sep 15
I'm not a fan of the suggestions option personally, though I know it is popular. There are always going to be silent followers. They often just want you to follow and read their work without bothering to reciprocate. Communication runs two ways or it is meaningless.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Sep 15
@arthurchappell i agree..why follow someone and not interact by going to theirs?
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@jstory07 (139354)
• Roseburg, Oregon
6 Sep 15
I came over from the B place and i am following all of the ones that were there. I liked their discussions there so I will like them here.
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Sep 15
@jstory07..I was never there so you and others that were are now my friends too!
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
7 Sep 15
@LadyDuck I agree..why do they do that?...no sense of doing it just for fun..
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
7 Sep 15
@simone10 I've memorized everyone who interacts with me their name so i hope no one every changes it..hahah
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
8 Sep 15
@simone10 some names are similar..weird i know..but if there tag name is different i remember that
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
8 Sep 15
@Rosekitty Lol...you have a good memory. I haven't been here that long and although I do remember some names right offhand, I always remember when I see the name.
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@Haveyouseenthatgirl (63)
• Makati, Philippines
7 Sep 15
It totally feels great when someone's suggesting a topic to you. Its just so nice to know that someone remembers you, they won't be suggesting if they don't right?
And there isn't a bad thing about having a lot of suggests. Like DUH! It won't even hurt you nor kill you -.-
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
7 Sep 15
@Haveyouseenthatgirl ..I think of all my followers that interact with me even to the point i know all of their names now..
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@Haveyouseenthatgirl (63)
• Makati, Philippines
8 Sep 15
That is so nice ... I don't know what their problem about you suggesting to them, I guess they just don't know how to appreciate someones effort haha
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
7 Sep 15
I love to respond to interesting discussions. Although I remember having interacted with you earlier on mylot, but I have not been following you (which I have done now). You could suggest your post to me and if I have anything to contribute, I will surely check and respond. (I am not sure if you are following me or not?)
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
8 Sep 15
@Rosekitty - No worries, if you did not know me earlier. Now we start connecting.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
7 Sep 15
@dpk262006...Don't remember you sorry but will check to see if we are following each other..thanks!
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
8 Sep 15
@dpk262006 I found you in my following so you are right!
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
6 Sep 15
I did love that song my problem is I have not only been deathly sick but can't work well with this stupid laptop. gotta sit hunched over on a couch. have to wait for my HGMI cord to come in for a tv monitor. lol
my problem is I have not only been deathly sick but can't work well with this stupid laptop. gotta sit hunched over on a couch. have to wait for my HGMI cord to come in for a tv monitor. lol2 people like this
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Sep 15
@bunnybon7 ..I'm so sorry you are sick and hope you are beter soon..plus i hope your cord comes in soon!
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@allknowing (135331)
• India
7 Sep 15
Going by the responses you get you are better off than most of us here who are hardly noticed.Just for your information I have over 400 followers 
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@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
13 Sep 15
I don't mind the suggestions. I actually like them from my good connections. And besides, if someone don't want to get these notifications, they can change that in the settings. I know I haven't been very diligent lately here, or any other writing site I belong to. I need to get some things straight first before I can devote lots of time. I am woking on it though. I know what you mean about followers. I have my share, but that does not mean I am going to follow everyone that follows me.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
13 Sep 15
@inertia4..i know i feel after almost 2 months being back it was time to delete some that are following me but no interaction..so why do that?
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
16 Sep 15
@inertia4 I am still trying to figure that out..seems kinds weird they way they are listed..
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@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
16 Sep 15
@Rosekitty I am trying to clean up my followers now. but they seem to have a problem because I see lots of the connections I have listed two or three times on my follow list.
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@UnkyGreggy (171)
• Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
7 Sep 15
So far a few Mylotters come up with good discussions that makes them good for following. Like YOU, @PhredWreck, @Unforgettable_Raj, @TiarasOceanView and maybe a couple more.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
7 Sep 15
Also thank you so much Unky Greggy. I also like your discussions.
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@Ishani08 (563)
• India
7 Sep 15
I like to follow {specially- you and OceanTiara} and also being suggested.
The topic of my first discussion on myLot was that I am a new user and would open-heartedly welcome any suggestions.....I respond to every discussion that I find interesting...
I like your style of writing and interesting topics you come up with and would glad to be keep learning more from you..!!!!
and would glad to be keep learning more from you..!!!!
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
7 Sep 15
@Ishani08 ..that is a very nice compliment thank you..
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