Suggestions needed
By Naman jindal
@Namanjindal13 (340)
Delhi, India
September 7, 2015 5:32am CST
If someone talk rubbish about you behind your back and you came to about that from some other person what shall you do
Will you stop talking to him
Or
Would you continue talking to him without telling him that you know what he says behind your back
Or
You would directly insult him
Or any other that you would have done
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6 responses
@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
9 Sep 15
It depends on who the person is. If someone doesn't know me, then I don't understand why they woulld want to talk about me in the first place.I would certainly ignore those I don't know, and if someone were to talk about me and I know them, I would ask them what I had done to them for them to talk about me like they are.
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@Namanjindal13 (340)
• Delhi, India
9 Sep 15
Have someone ever done to you such thing in past??
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
9 Sep 15
@Namanjindal13 Not that I can recall, but I am prepared should it ever happen. In a way, I really don't want it happening, as that isn't good at all.
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
7 Sep 15
If it bothers you that much, you should probably confront them and see if it's true that they said those things.
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@Namanjindal13 (340)
• Delhi, India
7 Sep 15
@katsmeow1213
I was passing by and maybe he didn't notice me so I heard a few things waguely
Not that sure but still have a very high possibilty
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
7 Sep 15
If that person means something to me i would have a one on one conversation with them to find out why they said that..if i don't know them i'd ignore them
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@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
13 Sep 15
If I wasn't close to that person, and didn't care about them, I'd let it slide but also ensure that I stayed away from them. If it was someone i considered a friend or maybe part of my family, i'd want to get to the bottom of it. I'd sit them down and ask for their version. As I would obviously know that person well, I'd be able to establish whether or not they were lying.
If I found out that they'd betrayed me, depending on the gravity of the situation I may have to freeze them out. If the situation didn't warrant that, I'd have to see how remorseful they were, if they took steps to correct that situation and decide if it's worth giving them a second chance.
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@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
19 Sep 15
@Namanjindal13 It's a pleasure! As long as you're a decent person and do right by others, you can hold your head high in the knowledge that your conscience is clear.
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@Namanjindal13 (340)
• Delhi, India
13 Sep 15
Thanks lushla
Very well explained
It will really help me
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