Do you like Being alone?

@sofssu Yes, to agree with you on this. I would rather be alone then to cater to someone who is unappreciative of me.

@rosekiss I am glad you enjoy being alone. Honestly it is better than being tied to someone who doesn't appreciate you. Isn't it a wonder how resilient we are and how we adapt to the changes in life.

rosekiss I am so sorry about your divorce after 35 years that is such a shame. I am glad to hear you've adjusted to be alone well. Good for you. My husband and I have been together 21 years and I can't imagine never having him here. Although he works swing shift so if he's not working he's watching tv or sleeping which I find frustrating.

@arthurchappell Now that sounds like me talking. I am glad you enjoy your peace and quiet. But I hate disturbing that with the TV or music. I love those long walks too.

@sofssu do you enjoy watching shows alone too? I thought I was the only one. I think it is because I can focus more alone on the show rather than someone interrupting and starting conversations lol

I love being alone and find that if I don't have at least an hour or two alone time then I will end up feeling irritated! I enjoy watching movies and tv shows on my own for some reason lol

@Rollo1 I am sure you have a few hours of quiet everyday when they go to school/college or work or is someone always at home? Maybe I don't understand.

@sofssu Someone is always home. Before I was always home, I had five minutes per day alone in my car on the way to work. Sigh. Good times, loud radio, lots of loud singing to myself.

@Rollo1 Okay .. so you miss those me times

@sofssu Well, thanks for the warning. Stalk me baby, stalk me.

@TexanTornado dream on I am not leaving you alone.. I am going to stalk you around the site

With my husband I can do what I want, when I want, and how I want without any interruption, distractions, etc. for the most part. Sometimes when I am reading my Bible he'll come into the room and I'm like yeah? But that's fine no biggy.

@else34 You mean 50 people live in the same house. OMG that could really get on anyone's nerves. i am sure you long for some peace and quite. I hope your mylotting times are peaceful

@sofssu Yes,I know it is hard to believe,but I mean more than 50 people under the one and the same room.Even more unbelievable is my friend's family which comprises of nearly 100 people.Brothers,their wives,children,uncles,aunts,cousins etc etc.Recently I had read about a village somewhere in a western state of our country where a family boasts of having as many as 500+ members.Again there is yet another village the whole population of which is constituted by the members of one family.....India is a land of wonders,dear.

@else34 Amazing.. while I agree it could be fun to have celebrations and such.. but everyday life could be terrible cramped. Is there any such thing as a personal time in such a big group?

@Butchcass4 I don't really care for too much alone time. I enjoy what I have right now while everyone is at school/work. I agree mylot is a great way to interact with people during your alone time.

@DauphinBl3u I understand some times you need 100% concentration.. and yes I would like to be left alone like you .. Glad you enjoy your quite times otherwise too.

@allisonwish I agree when you are sick things get really difficult. I used to experience this when I lived alone. That is when you think of having some company.

@kataomoi I can relate to what you say.. I like company but I am happy being alone too. Sometimes I just don't want any noise around me. Do you have any hobbies to keep you busy?

@Boonie1 Okay you like a mix of both.. I guess tat is what we call balance. Good on you.

@Namanjindal13 I am glad that you lean more to the other side. We are social animals, but we love our privacy too.

@cahaya1983 I can relate to what you are saying. I have a friend who hates being alone.. even for a few hours.. she keeps calling people to her house or invites herself over .. , or she will put her TV so loud and do some stuff around her house.. I can never understand that. I don't need to be alone to think freely, but I do focus better when its quiet even if people are around.

@sofssu Hm that's strange, probably she had a bad experience when she was alone? I can focus and think when there's white noise in the background, but what stops me from focusing is always interruption by people.

@crazyhorseladycx I know what you mean. I love em critter too.. They are so peaceful to have around you.