What am I doing wrong? / myLot

Holiday, Florida

September 7, 2015 10:44pm CST

I think I see maybe it is because I am not on here lots and lots? No that can't be the only thing. Guess I am not interesting enough.

The thing is, I post a discussion, then go to some of my supposed followers and read and like theirs. Most reciprocate. Like I go to about 5 or 6 I follow but only 2 or 4 at the most ever visit mine? So why am I here? as soon as get back I always answer and reciprocate. Found this cute picture of how my friends here are acting (some that is) on pixabay free photos. Isn't he adorable? I would say the site is a bit dead but II have some friends here that seem to be doing very well. Guess I am just not witty.

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21 responses

firecracker

@sacmom (14192)

• United States

8 Sep 15

You definitely have to be active on here. That goes for pretty much any site though. Have you tried suggesting posts to your followers? Maybe that will help.

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theSids

@thesids (22180)

• Bhubaneswar, India

8 Sep 15

Yes, the "suggesting" thing can work for sure, but then, there are always risks involved - on another discussion, someone said, suggestions are unwelcome to this person. This person may treat suggesting as an action of spamming.

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firecracker

@sacmom (14192)

• United States

8 Sep 15

@thesids True, but that person could always turn off the notifications for suggestions. Just sayin'.

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Artgirl

@owstalaga (4707)

• Philippines

8 Sep 15

@sacmom oh there's an option to turn off notifications for suggestions? I didn't know that!

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Always smiling

@allknowing (136100)

• India

8 Sep 15

i have over 400 followers and my posts are read by hardly any. Not that my posts are untouchable

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bonnie

@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

9 Sep 15

yours are ok also. but I try to get to peoples posts that come to mine first. it is why until this one, I was not doing so well. after I answer all my posts, then I look toward the ones I am following

Shellyann36

@Shellyann36 (11384)

• United States

8 Sep 15

Lots of people were probably enjoying the Labor Day weekend. I am not able to get on as much as I would like. Since the steady job has washed out for now I am spending more time here. I am sure it will improve for you.

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bonnie

@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

9 Sep 15

I think I was just upset over my last post . only one person visited. I really should realize I need to be more active also

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Shellyann36

@Shellyann36 (11384)

• United States

20 Sep 15

@bunnybon7 I hope that things are going better. I have found that the interaction (me visiting other people) does earn. I logged in at $1.82 and now I am up to $1.88 with only visiting people and no new posts.

much2say

@much2say (55562)

• Los Angeles, California

9 Sep 15

Oh, I feel bad for neglecting my dear @bunnybon7 - but I've been neglecting nearly all the sites as it's gotten busy here with the kids' schedules and all. As they say, interaction is the key here - but for me I know that's difficult as I have to limit my time on the computer. I will make it a special point to visit ol' friends!!

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bonnie

@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

9 Sep 15

thanks dear. I know you now from other sites and know you are quite busy as I am often sick and can't sit at pc as much as I would like.

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sofs

@sofssu (23662)

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8 Sep 15

Being active is the key. It does happen that not all your followers respond. You'll have to take that on any site.

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besweet

@besweet (9859)

• Ireland

8 Sep 15

I agree, it also helps if we are active a few hours per day and maybe respond fast to friend's comments. Then it becomes like live chat and I enjoy it very much when it happens.

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besweet

@besweet (9859)

• Ireland

8 Sep 15

@sofssu And the discussions have a better flow. If the comments come too late, it's less possible to keep the interest high and maybe get it to the hot topics list.

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sofs

@sofssu (23662)

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8 Sep 15

@besweet Yeah its fun when it happens.

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SomeName

@Boonie1 (425)

• Ashdod, Israel

8 Sep 15

Sometimes luck and the time you post your discussion has something to do with it. the more you try the more you get, dont give up

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bonnie

@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

10 Sep 15

I do believe you are some what right about that. maybe my friends are not on when I am.

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Heather Echola

@GardenGerty (160626)

• United States

8 Sep 15

I am kind of in between on my activity right now. I do tend to either check on people who respond to me, or look at suggestions. I am sorry if I overlook you sometimes.

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bonnie

@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

9 Sep 15

GardenGerty, I also do it that way. probably why I am also guilty of not visiting you enough. sorry

patgalca

@patgalca (18366)

• Orangeville, Ontario

8 Sep 15

Don't just go to your followers. Go to "explore" and don't just like, comment. I'm not on here a lot and don't post a lot. I think I've responded to more conversations on here than any other site. Sometimes I can't think of anything to add but haven't had that problem here on myLot. You need to connect with more people and be sure to comment. People don't always see that someone has liked their post.

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bonnie

@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

9 Sep 15

i do that. then go read some of theirs and comment. its usually the first thing i work on when coming to any such site

Artgirl

@owstalaga (4707)

• Philippines

8 Sep 15

I for one just enjoy posting away. If no one responds of course I feel sad. But then when a lot of people respond to my next discussion I feel great.

It's just like a roller coaster ride maybe. Or I think you're taking it the wrong way. It's not that when you comment or like someone's discussion then it means they will automatically come around yours and do the same. As far as I know, that's not how it usually is on here even back then. Just post stuff you are interested in maybe and not things you think other people will be interested in. I dunno. It of course differs for each of us. Whatever works for others sometimes doesn't work for you and vice versa.

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bonnie

@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

9 Sep 15

guess you are right. i was just feeling a bit deserted.

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katsmeow1213

@katsmeow1213 (28716)

• United States

8 Sep 15

I am kind of having the same problem. I spend as much time as I can reading my friend's discussions and looking at other discussions of people I don't know. Yet when I start a discussion I get maybe 2-3 responses where as most of my friends are getting like 10. I just don't think the site has really picked back up yet... hopefully things get better as more people discover Mylot.

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bonnie

@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

10 Sep 15

and the more friends we have who return I think

Karen Waterson

@rosekiss (30414)

• Eugene, Oregon

8 Sep 15

As long as you interact with others, they will interact with you. I interact a lot and some of the discussions are maybe just between two people commenting back and forth. It is a joy and lots of fun, and earning too. Once you comment back, you should get a notification of someone that commented back to you. You go back to that discussion, and comment back to them. You never know how far it will take you, as they can get really long, and go every which way, as far as comments go.

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bonnie

@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

9 Sep 15

problem is so many followers and so many i follow and yet some don't reciprocate. you wonder why they are following you when they don't respond to any of your posts

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Karen Waterson

@rosekiss (30414)

• Eugene, Oregon

10 Sep 15

@bunnybon7 Yea, that is sad too. I really don't get as many responses to my discussions as some people get as they can get 50 or more. I have never been than lucky, but I am happy I get responses at all.

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Dauphin Bleu

@DauphinBl3u (60)

• Indonesia

8 Sep 15

I agree with what others say. You can't always expect people to do what they expected you to do. Maybe you have a bunch of followers. But just because they don't respond doesn't mean weren't making a good post or you friends didn't care about it. Just enjoy your time here. Don't let other people ruin your day.

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bonnie

@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

10 Sep 15

well I sure try and look at it that way. maybe just taking a while to pick back up here

Sharon

@simone10 (54187)

• Louisville, Kentucky

8 Sep 15

From what I can see, you have to do a lot of interacting, writing discussions and exploring to try and get new followers.

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bonnie

@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

10 Sep 15

i don't need more followers. i have hundreds that DON'T follow me obviously. lol. I have you as friend on the B site i noticed. have not been able to get into it and do anything for days!

i think it is about to bite the dust right when i am almost at redeem. that is my luck

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Sharon

@simone10 (54187)

• Louisville, Kentucky

10 Sep 15

@bunnybon7 I don't think that I have been on the B site in a week or more now. I just don't have time to do both and I love it here.

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maria peralta

@kayshope (1670)

• El Paso, Texas

8 Sep 15

I was a member of my lots for years. left after it changed. i just came back today. Ive always read posts like your.. I think if you just open you mind and write and respond how your heart feels youll do fine. i wouldnt worry. Just do it !!! hahahahha have a great day.. ps love the picture :)

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bonnie

@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

9 Sep 15

seems i have been a follower of yours since back then. glad to see you friend. thanks.

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maria peralta

@kayshope (1670)

• El Paso, Texas

10 Sep 15

@bunnybon7 thanks Im so glad to be back here. Missed everyone very much. :)

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Sandy KS

@rusty2rusty (6763)

• Defiance, Ohio

9 Sep 15

I respond on more of my connections discussions than they do on mine. I don't take it personally. as i know not everyone is interested in what I have to write about.

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bonnie

@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

9 Sep 15

yes I understand that. I just don't understand why I would get just one or 2 when I know there should be more interested out of hundreds of followers and so many I read most days. lol. maybe I should tag them mylot as this worked.

theSids

@thesids (22180)

• Bhubaneswar, India

8 Sep 15

I would blame it on the thing that is missing - "Notifications" of discussions started by friends. This newer version of MyLot needs a lot of extra exercising to get to the discussions that people are interested in.