Would you think of yourself as a free spirit?

@LadyDuck sounds great to me. Pleasing people does make you feel tied down and caught in loops. I never feel tied down by stuff.

@sofssu hmmm let me see.. Able to think for myself!! I never had to be part of the in crowd or had to fit in. I am perfectly content in doing things my way, or the things I want to do.

@TexanTornado Great .. you are doing good go on..

@TexanTornado I guess you are.. from what I have seen of you and heard from you. How would you define free spirit in your own words? if you get here sometime.

@sofssu I got it when I was nineteen. I'd wanted one for a while, but didn't really know what I wanted. Then, someone one day called me a free spirit, and said it in a negative manner. And I wanted to remind myself that no person has a hold on me. No matter what, no one is ever going to hold me down again. So, that settled it for me, and when I got one, that was what I chose.

Good to see you too.. Been here for almost a month after I gave up on B. So you have a tattoo to prove it too eh? . Glad you consider yourself a free spirit.

@sofssu We are lucky to have understanding husbands .

@SIMPLYD You bet. I have a soul mate who understand me through and through.. Boy that calls for a celebration!

@SIMPLYD Same here my husband won't restrict me .. he doesn't even want to know .. he trusts.. but i have to tell him everything.. we are one spirit and he needs to know.. that is how I feel.

@cahaya1983 Haha.. I knew it was coming .. actually if I strayed off the acceptable moral boundaries or my spiritual belief I would feel tethered.. Guilt and shame would be my constant company. and that would not be freedom.. My spirit would constantly be tied to something.

@cahaya1983 I am glad you think so too.. I wonder how I missed this comment . Freedom always comes with responsibilities.. here it is responsibility to self.

@sofssu That's a very good point. Freedom can have different meanings for different people. I don't consider it freedom either if we're constantly filled with guilt and shame for doing things that other might associate with being "free".

@MARKOTOP Isn't it a wonderful way to live life? We just discussed what freedom is.. That is Chaya and I .. I guess you seem to conform to our way of thinking.

@valmnz I guess I do a few things I don't have to, purely out of love. I am comfortable with it . I am still free because of the comfort levels.