Not that good at starting a discussion

@ZHVegas (248)
Sao Paulo, Brazil
September 9, 2015 6:09pm CST
So, I am new to mylot, and I read some discussions here, and I said to myself "Gonna start my own discussion", but when I was gonna do it, I realized that I am not that at starting a discussion, or in another way, "bringing up something to talk about, with people I don't know anything". Maybe it's just fear? I don't know, I don't think that's the problem with me. Maybe I am just mentally blocked, or kind lost. So... any tip guys? What should I do? Just post anything that comes to mind? Just go through discussions and answer what I think is better? Also, nice to meet you guys from mylot, I am Danilo, and sorry for any english mistake.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
10 Sep 15
Welcome to myLot I hope that you will enjoy your time here. There are a lot of topics that you can use in your discussions. You could share things from your personal life and ask for opinions or advice. Or you could write about things or news stories that you have seen, heard, read on the internet etc. That is just a few options, there are many other possibilities. But you don't have to start discussions. You could read and comment on other people's discussions in the beginning. That will give you the chance to meet some of the other members and interact with them. Some of their topics might inspire you and make it easier for you to write your own discussions
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@ZHVegas (248)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
10 Sep 15
Oh thanks for the tips, gonna try it!
@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
10 Sep 15
Well, we are all from different places, those differences could be an interesting line to discuss. You also mention your English, (which was good by the way), could start a discussion on odd phrases that don't make sense to you, or slang, or holidays, or food, or anything you want to ask the world at large, and I think you will do just fine. Just leave thoughtful comments on people's posts, and good people will follow you back and comment on your things, and boom, social discussion is born!
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@ZHVegas (248)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
10 Sep 15
From what I see, people talk about almost everything here? That's interesting... I will try going slowly frist and see what happens! Thanks!
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• Centralia, Missouri
11 Sep 15
@ZHVegas totally see a little bit of everything from daily life, to deep discussions going on!
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
10 Sep 15
I am not that good at starting discussions either. I just can't thinkof a topic of interest, so I mostly post responses and comments to other discussions. I have started some though, and the ones I have started recently are getting responses, and now they have lots of comments, which is good too. They are staying alive and I am so happy that people feel my discussions are interesting enough to respond to them.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
11 Sep 15
@ZHVegas It certainly does me, as I know that just one response can lead to lots of comments and maybe even more responses. I don't recall starting any discussions where I got no responses. I do help those in here though if I can on a no response discussionl. If the discussion is interesting enough, I will respond, and get the discussion going.
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@ZHVegas (248)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
11 Sep 15
True! It's nice to get responses, Kinda makes me feel better!
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@sofssu (23662)
10 Sep 15
Welcome to mylot.. you will get better and better at it as you post discussions.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
10 Sep 15
I'm new here too. I think the best idea for you is to just start talking about something you're interested in. Then we'll get to know you and be able to share our experiences too.
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@rakski (120588)
• Philippines
10 Sep 15
Yes, sometimes it is hard to think of something to post. But you can think of something that interests you. After you get the hang of the feel of it, you can go to other topics. I am pretty sure you have a lot of topics in your mind you want to write about. Good luck. welcome!
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@airkulet (2700)
• Philippines
10 Sep 15
welcome and nice to meet you too, I also kinda lost when starting a discussion and it holds me back whether I should post it or not, but try and try until you feel confident about it soon you will get used to it just like the rest of us
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• Indonesia
10 Sep 15
Hi Vegas, Welcome to mylot. Actually, I've always thought that I have a similar problem with you. I'm not at starting a discussion myself. In fact, I even not that good in making a post. It's more than once or twice that I just read a discussion without leaving any comment. It's not that I don't know what to write. I have a lot in my mind. I just have some trouble in putting it into writing. Maybe because I was afraid that it wouldn't be good enough. But Hey, if we don't give it a try, then we wouldn't know. So maybe we should just go with an advice you already know. Just write anything that comes to mind. Don't be afraid of being wrong or unable to write something that quite interesting. Cause even if you're not excellent at first, you can always improve it. But if you don't write anything, then you wouldn't know what to improve.
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• Indonesia
10 Sep 15
@ZHVegas Yeah.. This can be a great place for you to practice on expressing yourself with words. As there are so many people here would be happy to discuss a lot of topic. Just keep writing.
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@ZHVegas (248)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
10 Sep 15
That's exactly what happens to me. It's the same, but I am trying to get used to writing more so I can get better. I really think it's important to know how to express with words, and that's one of the reasons I started using mylot! Also Thanks!
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
10 Sep 15
Hi @Vegas,you needn't hesitate so much to initiate your own discussion.You are not talking face to face with us after all.Staring a discussion is easy.All you need to know is,what you are sharing and how.We all are like you.Share with us your own experiences and feelings.It's good that you interact by putting comments below other discussions.Continue with it and start your own discussions.
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
10 Sep 15
Welcome here! My english will not be better than yours! And you might already seen why.
@ZHVegas (248)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
10 Sep 15
Oh thanks! And your english isn't bad, really. I always apologie for my english because sometimes I am not sure if what I wrote is right or wrong.
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
10 Sep 15
@ZHVegas I do make mistakes! And sometimes stupid ones. But it is fine I guess because people know I'm not native.
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@ZHVegas (248)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
10 Sep 15
@fufurinha Everyone does make mistakes! When I am talking with someone that isn't a native in the language, I really don't care that much cause I know not everyone is perfect.
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@gregario888 (1276)
• Aurangabad, India
10 Sep 15
You discussions are sure to find better response, if you have established good interaction, with some members here. this place seems more about, interaction, that stand alone ripostes.
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@gregario888 (1276)
• Aurangabad, India
10 Sep 15
Interacting, seems the buzzword here at Mylot, a discussion, if it has participants and res-ponders, may be one thing. But interacting, seems a more sure fire way of keeping the score board ticking here.
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