Why are Soap Operas so Popular?

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@Marcyaz (35316)
United States
September 10, 2015 8:50am CST
A lot of times it is because a woman (man) is not happy with their lives They are escaping from reality and making their life more interesting. For elderly people it brings back memories of when they were young with children and helps with them from being lonely. Another thing is they present these characters as real people and associate them with being a friend or neighbor who is in almost the same situation as what is going on with the TV characters. Why do you watch Soap Operas for a Different Reason perhaps.
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• United States
10 Sep 15
I havent watched soaps for many years. I just like one or two and it was mostly for the characters in them they were interesting. I guess they could have been a sort of escape, but that didnt last long lolz
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
10 Sep 15
So you learned right away that this escape did not help at all.
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• United States
10 Sep 15
@Marcyaz My escape was running for my life along with my baby son
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Sep 15
@TiarasOceanView Sorry for that but glad you and son were able to get away and that I have met you online, my friend.
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@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
10 Sep 15
Honestly, I don't watch soap operas. I just can't stand watching them. I don't really understand why some people enjoy them, but that's just me. I'm not saying they shouldn't enjoy them. I'm just saying I don't enjoy them, I don't get the point of it, it's not my cup of tea.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Sep 15
Nor is it my cup of tea. I would rather watch a good story about something real or read a good book.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Sep 15
@dodo19 Kool
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@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
11 Sep 15
@Marcyaz I feel the same.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
11 Sep 15
I used to believe that there were two kinds of people who watched soaps in the U.S. By that I mean the ones made in the States, because I've heard other things about the "Mexican" soap operas. So, the two kinds are those who watch them because their lives are so empty and they find them a big joke. The other kind are the ones watching them because their lives are so bad that the soaps are the only things that are worse. If they watch them with someone else, they watch them in all seriousness. I never could get into them. Honestly, there is always a book to read or some better way to spend my time.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Sep 15
Well I imagine you could be righ some people watch them because they have empty lives, the others because their lives are so bad that watch them makes them see how they could be even worse off. I think there is a third who watch soaps just because they have been watching them so long they are addicted.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Sep 15
@ElicBxn They couldn't even take a break without watching now that is an addiction. Supposed to be working yet two women watch soap operas is not conductive to a work atmosphere.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
11 Sep 15
@Marcyaz but they had to start watching for a reason. I remember one large group at lunch who sat in the break room and laughed at the show (empty.) There there were a pair of women who sat in one of their cubes and seriously watched the same show (bad.)
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
10 Sep 15
I used to be hooked on All my children..one life to live..then i decided i need a life..so i quit watching them and then they went of the air..sad..
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
10 Sep 15
So they knew you weren't watching any longer and said okay we are going now.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
13 Sep 15
@Rosekitty Oh boy I have the feeling you need to go hide someplace as some people are going to be really mad at you. Hide right now and don't show your face again for a while.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
10 Sep 15
@Marcyaz yes sad to say it was my fault the soaps stopped..i quit watching and they said..no use being on anymore..the end
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@celticeagle (166976)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Sep 15
I think the soaps are expert at the cliff hanger and keep people coming back to learn what happens next. I used to watch soaps when younger but now I want the realities which are my type of soaps.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Sep 15
You are saying they are cliff hangers and that is why people keep watching them, each to their own if that is what they like. I just never could get interested in them.
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@celticeagle (166976)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Sep 15
@Marcyaz Some people don't need them. I think that some people live through them. The excitement and romance in them. Just like I like get a look at the back drops, parties and lifestyles of the rich in reality shows I watch.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Sep 15
@celticeagle That could well be but I am not much into reality shows either except for Survivor.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
11 Sep 15
Rob Lowe
I think it's called 'living vicariously': you choose a character that's a lot like you, and get to see how they/you would live if you make the wild choices THEY make. I sort of think of Rob Lowe's character in the upcoming series The Closer. He plays an actor who played the role of a hard-hitting lawyer on television (while his brother (played by Fred The Wonder Years Savage) and his father became REAL lawyers). The show gets canceled, and he moves back in with his dad and brother and--through his fame from the now-canceled show--attempts to become a hard-hitting lawyer IRL. (And it's a comedy, so you know it's not a smooth transition from fake court to real court )
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Sep 15
Now I say he would be well worth watching. I seem to remember something about The Closer in fact I may have seen it a time or two. Sounds Interesting.
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
13 Sep 15
@mythociate That must have been where I saw it.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
12 Sep 15
@Marcyaz It hasn't started airing yet, though you may have seen a couple of the previews (short, but TEN MINUTES short ) for it.
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• Austin, Texas
12 Sep 15
I don't watch soap operas any more. But when I did it was because there were certain actors or actresses that I liked and enjoyed following their career. Also, the developing story line kept me interested. After a while though, they became boring to me. I could have kept up because there were women at work who would bring a TV set and take lunch breaks when the episodes came on. But watching TV at work never worked for me. Even if it was lunch time.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
13 Sep 15
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@LeaPea2417 (37353)
• Toccoa, Georgia
10 Sep 15
Years ago, I watched "All My Children" with my Mom. Then, when I got married, I started watching "Days Of Our Lives". I watched them because I liked the stories at the time. One thing about soaps is , their story lines take so long to go through that I can take months of a break from watching it and come back and still not have missed too much.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
10 Sep 15
I guess that means they don't move to fast if you can go back months later and not miss too much.
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Sep 15
@Susan2015 Is that what people who watch them say make them shorter?
@LadyDuck (471508)
• Switzerland
10 Sep 15
I suppose that you correctly listed the main reasons why people watch soap operas. I know that my Mom watches them.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
10 Sep 15
Wonder if she really likes them or is it an escape of some sort for her.
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@LadyDuck (471508)
• Switzerland
10 Sep 15
@Marcyaz Well, she is 94, she has nothing to do all the day, it's a way to spend some time. I believe she likes some, not all.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Sep 15
@LadyDuck Probably just had them on for nothing else to do or not much to do so a way to spend some time.
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@Butchcass4 (5895)
• United States
12 Sep 15
I used to watch soap operas religiously when I was younger and before I became a Christian. I felt convicted about watching them after I gave my life to Jesus and I have never turned back. I watched them because I was unhappy with life period! Now I have Jesus in my life and don't need that emotional fix that soap opera's gave me.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
12 Sep 15
That is good you have now found your way and no more use for soap operas.
@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
12 Sep 15
I haven't watched soap operas since my kids were babies and they are grown with families of their own. I guess I watched them at that time because I didn't feel like I had a life outside of my kids. Their father and I were going through a difficult time.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
13 Sep 15
i would guess that is as good a reason as any if you were unhappy at that time.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
14 Sep 15
@Marcyaz It seemed like I lived my life through theirs. There was a point when I really got into the soaps and just had to watch them everyday. Once I went back to work, I didn't watch them anymore.
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@tessastv (273)
• Inverness, Scotland
14 Sep 15
I kinda love watching soap operas, as much for the characters but for the plots also. There surely are a few substancial tv shows which are worth watching. I do agree on the escaping part.. sometimes these can bring some cheer and excitement to our lives.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
14 Sep 15
I guess it is all about the reason for watching whether to escape our everyday life or for the characters.
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@mom210 (9117)
• United States
11 Sep 15
I never really watched them, but you may be on to something there.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Sep 15
@Bella128 (2471)
• United States
21 Nov 15
I think they are a guilty pleasure for some. Sometimes it's fun to watch other people's drama.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
21 Nov 15
I think they do not seem real at all maybe some believe them but they to me are just plain silly.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 15
Your discussion is based on the soap operas which are screened in your country. It seems that at your place good soap operas are being aired which keep the elderly people glued to TV sets. May be in soap operas they show a character which look like a real one. I also feel that many people are addicted to soap operas as these are one of the best ways to spend their time. However, on Indian TV channels soap operas which are aired are far from reality, they show unrealistic stories. They have same plots and similar characters (and sometimes similar dialogues). Most of them show adultery, extra marital affairs, rape, kidnapping and accidents etc. The character are always immaculately dressed (even when they are sleeping or waking up or working in kitchen) nicely and decked up. I do not like to see unrealistic soap operas, instead I prefer watching reality shows.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Sep 15
You are under a misconception as here there is adultery, extra marital affairs and the such. The characters are always dressed like they are going to a party and as such the women wear high heels to clean a house or fixing a meal. They do not seem real at all.
@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
10 Sep 15
I don't watch soap operas i can't stand them. I'm not much of a TV watcher anyways.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
10 Sep 15
I watch TV but not the soap operas.
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
14 Sep 15
When I was small my grandmother and my mother would both watch a few different daytime soap operas. They always talked about the people in those soap operas as if they were real people. Strange. But I know now the daytime soaps are not as popular as they once were, and for good reason. The internet. More younger people are not into them and I don't blame them. They are boring and just keep going on and on.
@hostessman (11871)
• Tucson, Arizona
10 Sep 15
sorry to say but I have never watched one episode of any soap tv show and I don't feel as if i have missed out on anything
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
10 Sep 15
I do not watch any of those either and I know I am not missing anything.
• Tel Aviv, Israel
10 Sep 15
i dont know .there probably good
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
10 Sep 15
Some people might think so I guess.
@rakski (123050)
• Philippines
11 Sep 15
I used to watch soap operas when I was younger but not anymore. I cannot find the time to watch because I take care of the kids and do homework and all chores. In case where I really want to watch, I opt to watch it in youtube even though it is months delay
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Sep 15
So you would rather watch youtubue then the soaps I take it,