Should teenagers work
By marcyaz
@Marcyaz (35316)
United States
September 10, 2015 11:16am CST
I believe they should even if only for a few hours after school or in the early morning hours as it in time teaches them job responsibility.
They find they need to get eight hours of sleep to be alert in school and ready for their job that day.
A lot of teens who work also find their grades are better
. It also teaches them how to manage their time better and will give them some spending money.
Three of my sons were paper boys and it helped them in their math and dealing with people.
If you have teens do they work?
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@fufurinha (11930)
• Portugal
10 Sep 15
I am still young (wih no kids) but I think that is good to have a job early. Helps us to organize our time and to be extra careful with the studies.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 15
I feel that if teenagers are working during their summer holidays/winter holidays to earn some pocket money, that is fine. It will help them instill confidence in them. They would come to know the value of money, when they start earning this way.
Working to earn a salary even on a regular part time basis could effect studies, in my view.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
13 Sep 15
@dpk262006
I have never known any parents who have done that but I agree it would be entirely wrong.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 15
@vandana7 - Yes, it looks odd when instead of helping children, parents ask them to earn and pay them money.
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@celticeagle (167015)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Sep 15
I think teens should work. Maybe not a full time one until they are out of school. And they should also be responsible for paying some of their own bills. Their own clothes and perhaps their cell phone too. Car payments coming up also.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Sep 15
@celticeagle Here as i understand it the coverage for teens goes way up and some parents just can not afford it.
@celticeagle (167015)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Sep 15
@Marcyaz yeah, I'm just saying that is coming. Insurance could be the deal breaker for sure.
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@vandana7 (100302)
• India
10 Sep 15
I think working needs to be differentiated from earning here. Working is something we do with a lot of responsibility, and our failure to do the job well, can result in losses to the organization, and loss of job not only for us, but for others as well. Moreover, working is for proverbial food, clothing, shelter, and medicines for ourselves and our loved ones. Unlike this, earning the way teenagers should, is fine. Work and associated responsibilities can weigh heavily on mind, and that is not ok for a child. But simple sincerity in any job that he or she takes up is a great way to make children responsible.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
10 Sep 15
Children feel like they are becoming responsible when they are earning money by their working. They have a hint of what it will be like when they are adult and hold a real job as an adult. They also learn how to deal with different types of people.
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@vandana7 (100302)
• India
10 Sep 15
@Marcyaz ...as long as they are not asked to fend for themselves and others, because if they take their responsibilities too seriously, or need to, they can be exploited, because they are not aware of their legal rights, and do not know how to come out from any complex situation like we adults do. Earning for what they want is different from earning for what they need. It is one thing to earn for a smartphone, and another thing to earn to pay for rent or food bills.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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10 Sep 15
Weekends maybe but not during the week, I know my two older boys always seem to be takes exams after exams. It would be too much for them to work during the week and I think affect the schooling. My oldest does work on a Sunday at a local garden centre.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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10 Sep 15
@TiarasOceanView Thank you Roz, yeah school is important and the amount of work they get those days seems to be far more than I ever had when I was there. If it's not testing then exams, plus course work too.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
10 Sep 15
Agree with that Kev 100%, school is number one.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
10 Sep 15
@kevin1877uk Yes I know in England you actually ARE getting an education lolz
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@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
10 Sep 15
My oldest son did work. He still got in trouble three years in a row. Today has turned his life around and doing amazing raising his son.
I don't allow my teen to work between school and extra activities. He is really busy. He does have the choice, work or some extra activity after school. Both he can't do both.
My teen daughter does not work. She is only 15, slow and immature for her age. Not sure if she will be working or not yet. It depends on how much she grows. Right now we are focusing on hygiene and respect for elders.
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@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
10 Sep 15
@Marcyaz I agree. My teen son is doing great in school. In honor classes getting A/B's. Does well in sports. He good socially with his peers.
His sister is the total opposite. They are like night and day. She requires more help.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 Sep 15
@rusty2rusty
You sometimes wonder do they really live in the same house have the same love and same rules to follow. Children are all different, I know my four boys were all different in one way or another.
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@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
11 Sep 15
I agree with teenagers working. I think it's not only teaching them the responsibility, but also giving them a chance to service. There are much more they can learn from the work, but not in school. I don't have teens, but my husband and I have been talking, we'll let our children work when they have reached the legal age for working, to learn, to gain experience, and also to have fun. Working can be really fun, and same goes to life.
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
10 Sep 15
yes they should and mine not only worked but did chores went to school and served me brownies..hahah..well not the last part..
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
13 Sep 15
@Rosekitty
Not a good role model were youunder 10 I think there is a child labor law against making one so young work. Gimme some brownies...
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
10 Sep 15
@Marcyaz yep..and now they are adults making their babes work..well some are under 10 so not them..hahah
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@topffer (42156)
• France
10 Sep 15
@Marcyaz You were very courageous Marciaz. At my time it would have been possible for me to work at 14 years old during my holidays. Now, it is impossible, except for an internship, and internship is not always paid. Teens have to wait until 18 to get a summer job.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
10 Sep 15
Well I think they should if the can find something. Often times the problem is some jobs want them to work full time hours and that is not right. They need to be in school too.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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10 Sep 15
I gree with you, a part time weekend job is ok but school is more important.
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@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
10 Sep 15
I worked during the weekend on the various properties doing restoration projects or helping on the farms. I didn't really get much time away from the work I did on weekends. On the weekdays I could socialize a little bit after school and sports, but not much. I guess it depends on the type of teen.
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@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
13 Sep 15
@Marcyaz Yes, but I wasn't really working for other people for pay unless I was down at the golf course collecting balls from the woods and water hazards and selling them to golfers.
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@much2say (55665)
• Los Angeles, California
10 Sep 15
My kids are not teens yet (well, the older one is getting there as she is 10), but we try to have them be workers in training - hee hee. We have them doing all sorts of chores in the house - simply because one day they will need to do this stuff on their own. And when they are able to work outside the house, we will definitely encourage this - it will get them acquainted with the real world and how to wisely manage their money. I worked as a teen, but I wish I learned money management from my parents.
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@foxontherails (236)
• Japan
11 Sep 15
I should've done more part-time when I was younger (I still could). Yeah, like you said, it does help with integrating into society well. Sort of like a weaning off from allowances and actually starting to sustain themselves.
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@Carmelanirel2 (8084)
• United States
1 Oct 15
My son is 13 and I know he needs a job, except he is too young for a job like at McDonalds, but not too young for a neighbor to ask him to work. Which he has a couple times and then the last few days I have been dog sitting for a neighbor, but I am paying my son to go over in the afternoon when he comes home from school because I am not home from my classes until later.
It does teach them to be responsible and if they can't manage their time, that would be a good lesson in learning instead of learning it when they are on their own and can't afford to lose a job.
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@Carmelanirel2 (8084)
• United States
2 Oct 15
@Marcyaz The only thing he does is he helps me dog sit (like when I can't due to my school schedule) and helping me pull weeds, but for some reason he refuses to cut the grass. I don't know why, because that is where the money is.
@Butchcass4 (5895)
• United States
10 Sep 15
My kids worked when they were teens and I believe it helped prepare them for being on their own and when they got their license they had to pay their portion of car insurance that was the deal when it was time to get their license. I believed it helped them be more responsible. I had 4 neck surgeries during their teen years and they also had to do their own laundry and help with the cleaning and meals as much of the time I was in a lot of pain and unable to do housewife and motherly duties.
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