A New Hobby Late In Life.
By Jabo
@jaboUK (64354)
United Kingdom
September 10, 2015 5:43pm CST
I was 73 years old before I even touched a computer, and being somewhat of a technophobe, had no desire to do so.
Then my daughter moved to the other side of the world to live, and she thought the best way for us to communicate would be through Skype.
So we got me a laptop. She set me up and showed me a few things, and hey presto, here I am.
I never learnt to type, so I only use two fingers, but what the heck - the words come out the same however many fingers you use.
I'm a long way from being computer literate, but being online has really opened up the world for me. I now have friends in many different parts of the world, and I mean real friends who I care about, and who care about me.
I'm so grateful to my daughter for adding this new dimension to my life, I wouldn't be without it now.
How long have you been using a computer, and how did you start?
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37 responses
@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
11 Sep 15
I had an old Commodore back in the 80s and then started working on PCs at a job. In those days, information was downloaded to local servers which were then uploaded once a day to the mainframe in another state. I ended up being the one who did those initializations and data transfers. At home, there were bulletin boards that people communicated on, but not in real time. The data went by dial up modem from one computer in a network to another once a day. Then when we finally got DSL in our town, we got hooked up to the internet in the mid-90s. In 1999, I started going online and chatting in internet chat rooms because I was home on maternity leave. I haven't turned the dang thing off since.
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@Juliaacv (51260)
• Canada
20 Sep 15
I started on a commodore 64 which I bought for $20 at a yard sale. We learned as we went on that thing. Then we bought a 186 and then a 386 and then a Pentium. When we bought the Pentium we were able to get the internet, it was the late 90's and a far cry from the laptop that I am currently using, but it did the trick! I remember all of the floppy disks that we used back in the day.
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@GardenGerty (160677)
• United States
11 Sep 15
I have been using computers for over twenty years. I had to start to try to keep up with my kids who learned them in school. I do love the world wide aspect of the computer.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 15
@GardenGerty My kids are well into their 40s now, so they didn't have computers at school. Otherwise I might have learnt alongside them.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39509)
• United States
11 Sep 15
i got putered in the mid-late 80's myself. took me some courses 'n got a degree in fact. useless piece 'f paper now, but did get a .05 raise 't work, lol. when i quit that job, i quit puters, too. boy howdy did i miss bunches 'f vast improvements!
i'm so glad yer daughter set'cha up 'n got'cha started. my daughter finally installed skype when she came in july. i dunno why, coz i aint got nobody to talk to on the darned thingy - she's always too busy...
's fer the typin', i recall my dad 'd a secretary the fire dept hired...who couldn't type a lick, lol. he learned with 2 fingers 'n i'll be darned if'n he couldn't smack out 'bout 40wpm within a few months. i joked with 'em that he'd missed his callin'.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 15
@crazyhorseladycx So you've actually got a degree with these thingies? Lol.
Daughters always seem to be busy, don't they? But we luv 'em to bits.
Regarding the two fingers - I've no idea how fast I go, but I'm not doing too badly.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 15
@crazyhorseladycx There you go, making me laugh again !
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@crazyhorseladycx (39509)
• United States
11 Sep 15
@jaboUK yes ma'am, a worthless piece 'f paper - back in the days of floppy disks 'n no internet, lol. does me lil good now. yepperz, love 'em to bits 'n no doubt 'd here more from her 'n the sons if'n i text on the phone...which i refuse to do...coz i'd 've to upgrade my phone. jest call me stubborn! i used to blow up keyboards 'bout e'ery 3 months. back when i did it daily, i'd type 'bout 145wpm. these days i'm lucky if'n i can recall where the keys 're 'n sometimes swear somebody 's moved 'em.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Sep 15
@Inlemay It's true that you are never too old to learn, and I've certainly learned more about the world and the people in it than I ever thought possible, all courtesy of my computer. I've only ever had a laptop, but I see that in your case it's just a back-up.
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@allknowing (136481)
• India
20 Sep 15
I too am no spring chicken either. After I gave up my job I picked up a few courses and at that time 'Windows' was not heard of. Windows actually makes life easy for us and today I can say I am quite competent doing things that I did not dream I would venture into.
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@allknowing (136481)
• India
20 Sep 15
@jaboUK I have been with computers for years mostly experimenting and learning the hard way even having to replace hard disks a couple of times. My first hard disk was only half a GB and I think now it is over 400 GBs?
I create movies, I record my voice. and a whole lot of exiting things.
Have you come across this post of mine?
I am on youtube where I have uploaded many of my videos
This celebrity brought out a video entitled 'my choice' a few months ago. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KtPv7IEhWRA in reply to which I created a video...
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Sep 15
@allknowing That's very interesting. I watched both videos and I think you have the correct attitude. It shouldn't be 'me,me,me'. I liked your voice.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Sep 15
@allknowing Windows for me were what you looked out of! lol. You've been computing for quite some time I gather. I only know a few basics, but a couple of years ago I knew nothing at all.
@Juliaacv (51260)
• Canada
20 Sep 15
I think that I am also grateful to your daughter for showing you this! I have enjoyed so many of your posts over the months and hope to continue to do so. I learned to type in the 70's when I was in high school, of course that was on an old fashioned typewriter. I can key much much faster. We've had a computer in our home for over 20 years.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Sep 15
@Juliaacv That must have been hard to figure out your first computer. I must admit that I was a bit flummoxed when I bought this laptop (my first) as it had no user manual. All the help was online and I didn't know how to access it! Happy birhday to your son for tomorrow.
@Dewines (6)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 15
Kudos to you, sir! Sometimes it just takes a bit of a push and then you find that whatever it is is not as fearsome as you thought. :)
I'm 61. In the mid 1970s, when I was an biomedical sciences undergraduate, I was sent to a Fortran course. Two lessons and a practical scared me off computers for a quite a long time. Then in 1986, I needed to refresh my degree and PhD, so did a PG course in library and information studies. That is when I finally started to use a computer for word processing. Three years later I had a job managing a database and scientific information system in a charity. I only got the job because the people who interviewed me knew even less about computers than I did. LOL!
After that, things got better and better. I remember getting dial-up Internet at home in 1992. It was very exciting! Today, I work from home as a medical translator. I receive and return all my work by email, have to use MS Office and also dedicated translation memory software. I pay for software/hardware support of all sorts, because my livelihood depends on having a working system. However, I've learned to sort out minor problems by myself. I've set up several web sites over the years. Overall, I feel fairly comfortable with computers most of the time now.
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@Dewines (6)
• United Kingdom
14 Sep 15
@jaboUK Ooops, sorry about that, Madam! :) I'm a woman too. I'm not a computer expert by any means, hence paying for support to get me out of serious trouble. However, when a glitch comes up at 2am and I still have a job to finish with the deadline later that morning, it's good to know a few tricks to try!
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@seren3 (387)
• Los Angeles, California
11 Sep 15
It's great we can all be as connected as we want. I started writing on a Mac in the 80's and an Amiga in the 90's. Neither of those was mine. I finally bought a Mac in '99 because my child had to have one for school. He then built himself one, built me a new one...I've never looked back! Now I have a Windows laptop/tablet convertible and a Linux laptop.
@brickbybrick (23)
• Chengdu, China
11 Sep 15
I used computer when I was about 9 years old. At that time, I can just use my two fingers to type, just like you. O(n_n)O~ And when I went to the college, I have my own laptop. And now I am using it to type.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Sep 15
@brickbybrick I agree that it's never too late to learn, but sometimes the body won't co-operate if it involves doing something physical.
@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Sep 15
@brickbybrick Good for you for learning to type properly - it's too late for me I'm afraid as some of my fingers are a bit stiff
@brickbybrick (23)
• Chengdu, China
12 Sep 15
@jaboUK When you feel it's too late, by contrary it is the best time. It is never too late to learn!:)
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
8 Jun 16
@JaboUK I started on computers as a part of my studies .But never really got into the social media.Having lived all my life in small towns , there was a lot of face to face interaction and there still is. But now with the changes in my life , I too see how nice it is to be in touch like this!!
I am liking making friends in different parts of the world too.
Thing is when my elder son left home, he refused to Skype me or be friends with FB!!! But now he is responsible and is more communicative.
I missed out not having a daughter. Your's sounds so caring :)
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
8 Jun 16
@responsiveme I'm glad you've read this Arundhati - I didn't want you thinking that I was some sort of 'guru', just because I'm helpful. I am a real technophobe, as you see. I don't know half of what this computer can do.
Yes, I couldn't ask for a better daughter, nor son, for that matter. I'm very lucky.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
8 Jun 16
@jaboUK But you know what makes it tick in MyLot !!
Glad to know about your children.:)
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
9 Jun 16
@jaboUK OK, you may not be a 'guru'
Still, you are the person I'll always go to
Once, a newbie you might have been
But now, a lot on MyLot you have seen
That's why I ask you what to do.
And for your prompt replies, I must thank you.
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@much2say (55616)
• Los Angeles, California
15 Sep 15
You are doing amazingly @jaboUK ! I learned to type when I was about 13/14, and it was about that time my math included computer programming (which I hated and didn't understand). When I was about to graduate college, that's when the whole design on computers boomed - but I stuck with old school style in doing design by hand. In my 20s, the internet world was already out, but the company I worked for was a latecomer to that - so much that I could stick to old school style ways for much longer. It was about my late mid-20s that I finally jumped on the internet bandwagon but didn't get on these fun sites until my mid-30s when I left work to be a stay at home mom. Wow, I just had a flashback in life - ha ha!
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@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
22 Sep 15
Hi Jabo. I love reading your discussion. It's not late to learn whatever we desire. You know, my father who is just older than you for a few years has no interest in computers. He only has his mobile phone. Anyway that is still part of the technology that was not yet existing in his time. Do you mind if I follow you here in mylot?
Oops I forgot, I'm using the computer because of my work. I have been using for 15 years at the office. Before we were supplied with computers, we were using typewriters then. You know, using the computer made our work easier in many ways as compared to typewriters.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
22 Sep 15
@pahaka627 It's interesting about your father - my husband who's nearly 85 has no interest in computers and doesn't even have a mobile phone. So your dad is ahead of my husband.
i can quite see how using computers at work makes life easier for you.
thank you for following me, I will do the same as you seem a nice person.
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@gregario888 (1276)
• Aurangabad, India
11 Sep 15
One is always too young to learn about computers! Now that they are part and parcel of our lives. And if they can lead us to pay dirt, as they seem to be doing here, what more can one ask for?!
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@gregario888 (1276)
• Aurangabad, India
11 Sep 15
@jaboUK NO Jabo! I haven't, will have to reinstall some other version of Windows, a higher one, I am unable to access my 'discussions', option, on the toolbar. will get over that one soon.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 15
@gregario888 I hope you get it fixed soon - I look forward to reading something from you Would it help to minimise your screen? The 'pen' may appear if you do that.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 15
@gregario888 As you say - what's not to like? Have you written a post yet? I popped over to your page and found nothing, I'll come and have another look.
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@IrisheyesI (7)
• Richmond, Virginia
11 Sep 15
Can't recall exactly when I got my first computer. A relative gave me a computer. It was before windows so I had to learn a little dos. I don't remember anything but making a lot of lists and it was very boring. After the initial novelty wore off, the computer just sat there and I didn't touch it.
In 1998, I got my first Windows computer. Again, it was a gift from a relative and I have been on line almost every day since then.
As for the computer literacy, I'm lacking the foundation. I can do some fairly complicated things which I had an incentive to learn for one thing or another but I just don't know the basics and it always catches up with me. I keep saying I'm going to take a couple glasses at a micro center but I never seem to get around to it.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 15
@Irisheyesl You've been computing for a long time so you must know quite a lot.
I took a course of 6 lessons when I first got my computer, but it wasn't that helpful as they wouldn't let us use our own computers.A lot of the stuff was so different from mine.
Also it seemed to be geared doing things I wasn't interested in, like how to make posters etc.
So I'm certainly not computer literate, but have learnt a few things as I go along.
@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 15
@RasmaSandra Yes a computer really opens up the world, I agree, though my husband has never learnt. He's 85 and not interested.
@RasmaSandra (79902)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Sep 15
@jaboUK I started learning the computer a little bit at my job in NYC when computers were just being added to the workplace. Then when I moved here to Riga my hubby was the one who said we should have a PC at home. Well once we got out first comp it was love at first sight for me. Now my hubby works on his laptop and I work on a desktop PC. I just love writing and creating poetry. All of those many friends I've made online are sure worth it and I enjoy reacting with each and everyone.
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
24 Oct 15
My son showed me how to type and there was a program on the computer (the first one) so I could learn how to type. My kids bought me a Mac and I still have trouble at times with it, especially with my business files that moved from Microsoft to here but I'm getting better. I have loved my time spent on the computer too.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
24 Oct 15
@PainsOnSlate Where would we be in this computer age without our kids? I certainly would never have had a go myself.
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
24 Oct 15
@jaboUK we bought the first computer because our kids were in Jr High and High school, Who knew it would become something we count on now and would be lost if it was gone..
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